If you’ve ever struggled to get “it” up or keep “it” up… you’ve probably been pretty damn frustrated.
Nothing can be worse than wanting to have sex, being ready for sex, having a partner that’s ready for sex… and then failing to be able to get hard enough to enjoy it.
Not only does it suck for you… but it sucks for your partner as well.
No woman enjoys the process when their man can’t get it up… and if it’s an ongoing thing or even something that happens just more than once… it’s going to start causing issues and serious dissatisfaction.
So with that said, how do you turn this situation around?
Well most guys assume that the solution lies in meds.
There’s that infamous blue pill that many guys turn to keep them hard all night long, but in doing so there are a number of draw backs…
1 – You become dependent on this whenever you want to have sex
2 – It’s expensive to have to keep shelling out your hard earned money to top up your supply
3 – As with many drugs there are potential side-effects. To list just four side-effects that have been recorded; sudden vision loss, ringing in your ears, chest pain and irregular heartbeat… And there are at least 10 more, some of which even more serious than these.
In short, medication is an option, but it’s not a great one. (But if are going to try the ED pill route, don’t get ripped off. For North America you can view a low-cost generic ED pill site with price comparisons at genericpills.ca. If you’re on the other side of the pond, try genericpills247.co.uk)
What I always tell guys is that rarely is medication the best solution for them anyway.
The reason being is that if you already have the physical capability to get hard, but you just fail to do so in the bedroom then you shouldn’t need any medication.
Let me explain what I mean…
If in the last 6 months you’ve got hard 100% naturally, whether it be while watching porn,
masturbating or even while you were sleeping or first thing in the morning… then that means you have the physical capability to get hard.
What’s stopping you in the bedroom then isn’t a lack of medication – it means you’ve got some kind of block.
Now it could be a physical block or a psychological block, but in either case you’ve proven that you have the ability to get hard, you’re just not tapping into that potential at the right time.
So how do you turn this around?
Well here’s one really powerful strategy.
Anticipate the positive.
One of the biggest causes of E.D. or failing to get hard is nervousness. The state of mind of being nervous before sex can KILL your ability to get hard.
Now I won’t go into the scientific reasoning behind this here, but if you think back over your history with women you can probably think of a time when you wanted to have sex but because you were so nervous you failed to get it up.
I know most guys, including myself, can relate to this situation.
So what actually causes this nervousness.
Well, nervousness is caused by anticipating negative events. You get nervous when you feel like you’re being evaluated or if something bad can happen.
This is why job interviews are such a classic example of people getting nervous. They get nervous because they’re being evaluated and they’re worried that something bad will happen. And to top it off, there’s pressure because if they don’t perform well then they’ll miss out on an opportunity.
The exact same process happens before sex for a lot of guys.
The challenge is that the psychological state of mind of nervousness limits a man’s ability to get hard.
So what is the cure…
Anticipate the positive.
Instead of thinking about all the things that could go wrong, think about all the things that could go right.
Normally most of us don’t bother to control or even direct our thoughts. We just assume that they’re natural and happen without our control.
This isn’t true.
We can easily control what we think about as soon as we become conscious of what we’re thinking and just decide to think about something else.
From now on commit to anticipate positive results during sex and your confidence will skyrocket… along with your ability to get and stay hard.
Now I’ve really only scratched the surface here of techniques for getting and staying hard 100% naturally.
To learn more, check out the free video here…