Male Chastity

Male Chastity: A Wife’s Perspective

Male chastity and strict orgasm control puts a couples sex life and relationship on virtual steroids

male desAll men, given the ability, masturbate and way more often than most women think they do. This is something that is difficult for him to control and even more difficult to part with.

Young men have an abundance of testosterone so masturbation doesn’t seem to interfere with their pursuit of young women. And as men grow older masturbating usually translates into the husband ignoring his wife for at least a couple days.

Chastity puts a stop to the masturbation and works in many ways. It changes his mood, demeanor and libido. Most importantly it changes his desire to please you.

Getting him to adore you again

cunnilingusIt is not the goal for him to do the cooking or the cleaning or the laundry but you will find that it will happen, not routinely but it will happen because as he continues to build up his sexual energy that he no longer has the ability to release as he pleases he will divert that energy towards pleasing you.

You being the source of his sexual pleasure will change his feelings. He will adore you and treat you in a way you desire. He will be eager to please you because you are the source of his release. He will find, over time, he is happier and that will be because you’re happier. He will love the emotional boost the two of you share.

How to introduce chastity requires the correct plan. One that would work for my husband, was the most detailed part of the research process. By taking the advice of many other women, I was able to put a well informed plan together that I was confident that would be successful.

I followed this plan from day one and still, do to this day. I have found it works. At least a dozen other ladies have also utilized variations on this plan successfully.

We must always remember that sexually we are always in command and that first and foremost we will always be sexually satisfied.

face sittingThis is the cornerstone to happiness for both you and him. Keeping you sexually satisfied is your husband’s job. My husband does so anywhere and anytime I say and by any means that I demand. Not being able to experience the pleasure of an orgasm only means that I experience many more than ever before.

You may think that this works only to your advantage and that is a common misconception. It is just as advantageous for him. He must keep you satisfied to eventually get his release and every time he satisfies you he is happy because he has made you happy.

It is important to instill to him that his primary means of sexual gratification will be through your sexual satisfaction. Eventually every time you experience an orgasm he will have a sense of sexual satisfaction.

How you will accomplish this I will explain in a moment. What could be better, you being pleasured any way you like and experiencing wonderful sensations. He can not have an orgasm but he feels satisfied because you are and he will maintain a high libido. (Although you’re still equals outside of the home you are the queen of the bedroom and he is your slave.)

Initial enforcement of chastity period

cock cageIt is almost universally held by women who seriously practice chastity for their man that initial enforcement of chastity should be at least 3 months of continuous wear without relief after you go through the break-in period of getting a device that fits. Preventing him from having an orgasm for three month period may seem a bit harsh but it is paramount to your success as it allows his body and mind to adjust to the lack of masturbation and sexual pleasure as desired. Enforcing the first 3 month period will allow him to get in to the proper frame of mind and make him understand your desire and your commitment and your determination to his being chaste. It will also give you the chance to develop the strength to say “no”. He should be made aware of the time frame immediately upon his being secured in his device. This allows for a clear understanding of the initial commitment of time.

pleasing the wifeAfter 3 months of being locked up your man would be willing to do almost anything for a release. In that sense the chastity device will have done its job physically but mentally some men can hold out for 3 months and bounce back to their old ways once you let them cum. They then expect future orgasms on a regular basis! In determining the length of the initial period, you need to consider this.

A chastity lifestyle will be very hard on him initially and 3 months without release but it will make your seriousness very clear to him. You will have put an end to his days of masturbating behind your back. His life will never be the same after. Rather than pleasuring himself when he wants, he will become dedicated to pleasuring you when you want it and how you want it.

You will need to be strong and keep up your end of the bargain. When you can do this it will have change the dynamic of your relationship in a way that set you and him on the path to long term happiness.

Post-confinement release ecstasy

relief for husbandUpon completing his initial confinement period I assure you that you can give him an experience like he has never had before . This is a reward for both of you. You will have a sense of strength for enforcing it and him for getting through it.

You should make his orgasm a slow drawn out one with lots of teasing. It will be all too easy for him to cum very quickly. You may need to tie him down to keep him on edge but when you finally do let him cum it will be almost too much for his body to handle.

Once you allow him his first release it is entirely up to you how many sexual experiences you allow, how they occur and how the ejaculate is disposed. A very important step during any release period is to ensure that you will get him right back into his device.

Physical restriction may be necessary

Some of the women manage this by always tying him down before the device is removed. While this has its old school charms, there are lots of other options. Locking his hands behind his back in a pair of steel handcuffs is a quick way to keep him from grabbing his penis if you are teasing him. I also have a waist belt with a pair of leather cuffs attached which is easy and fun to use. You can get something similar for cuffing his hands to his thighs.

A wonderful device called a humbler works well if you want him to have use of his hands to pleasure you. If all you are doing is inspecting his cock and making sure the device is cleaned then I just put the handcuffs on one of his wrists or ankles prior to removing his device. Before the cuff comes off he has to be secured back in his chastity tube. I am confident that he would not be willing to go to work with the dangling cuff. Several of the other women have tried this trick and found it works well.

The less that you have to worry about his arguing that the device doesn’t have to immediately go back on the more likely you are to take it off frequently which promotes both teasing and keeping the tube and his penis clean.

Frequency of allowed orgasms

There were a number of different views about how often a man should be allowed to cum after the initial denial period. Some of the women with younger males let theirs have an orgasm about once a week. I suspect that they were masturbating a couple times a day before this so that once a week is a big reduction. Most of the women I talked to though thought that it was best to strike a balance between keeping them completely denied and giving them some hope of gaining a release. You will need to experiment and ultimately you will need to do what works best for you, recognizing that the less often for him the better.

lick my pussy nowThe most common belief was that it was not good to allow their male to achieve an orgasm more than once per month but most thought that his orgasm should not very often be withheld for more than 3 months unless there was a good reason for doing so.

Some women liked to think about how often their man could have an orgasm as a small fraction of the number of orgasms they had. A 50-1 ratio seems to be very popular but you can pick the number to suit your needs and gets the time between releases just about right. This approach gives him a strong incentive to initiate sex and give you orgasms.

Some women like to set goals for their husbands where they are allowed an orgasm earlier than scheduled if they meet a big goal. Men who had cheated with other women rather than by being chronic masturbaters deserve harsher treatment.

When you need penetration …

There may be times where you feel you have to unlock him to use his cock. Fortunately, there is a way to do this without letting him orgasm by using numbing creme and a several condoms. This usually works but there is always a small risk that he will cum especially if he has been locked for a long time. There are other alternatives that allow penetration without this risk.

You can avoid disappointment if you stimulate him to orgasm in some way other than intercourse when you first let him out of the tube. After he cums give him a Viagra and wait an hour or so before you use him for up. It is good for about 3 hours or you can give him a Cialis if you want to do an all day thing.

Once he has cum the first time and recovered by the time the erection drug takes effect, he will not orgasm nearly as easily and either of the two drugs will get and keep him really hard even if he has another orgasm.

Some of the women use their men for intercourse for several days in a row treating the whole event as a single release period before they lock him back up for a prolonged duration. The big changes that you must make in yourself to make a chastity relationship work is to commit to frequently teasing him, like you no doubt did when you first dated, and to having much more frequent sex yourself. The two can be one and the same thing.

Cunnilingus galore

trained to eat pussyHaving him perform cunnilingus on you while locked up is almost guaranteed to drive to the edge. Fortunately, for you the chastity device will keep him from going over.

Just think the more sex you get without letting him cum the more he wants you.

If more women knew this secret there would be a lot more locked up husbands and boyfriends.

Remember you have all the time in the world to train him to do the way you want without any need to worry about getting him off.

Once locked all he does is fantasize about you. You will need to decide if you want to be the one that initiates sex or whether you want him to.

Training your man

My usual rule with my man is that I will tell him when and how I want to be pleasured and he is expected to drop everything when this happens.

This is clearly a control issue for me but your tastes may differ.

One of my friends likes to have her husband instigate elaborate romantic seduction rituals. She never unlocks him during these events but on the rare occasion when he really outdoes himself, she allows him an orgasm the next day.

The bliss point is when you get your man to the place he gets pleasure purely from your pleasure without thinking about his cock. (My husband is not quite there yet but he is getting there.)

Teasing

There are almost an infinite number of ways that you can tease him.

stradling his faceThere is the classic tie him down to the bed, take off the tube and work over his cock for hours. Every time you feel him close to an orgasm stop and straddle his face and have one or more yourself. Stay with it as long as you can and you will leave him a marshmallow.

You may find that you have to ice down is penis to get back in the tube. Dress up in the way that drives him crazy and stand him at attention nude in his chastity tube while you softly stroke him all over but ignore his cock. He will struggle to stand tall as his cock struggles to grow in the chastity tube.

Every woman needs to develop her own style. You can keep things fresh by continuing to experiment. It may seem like a lot of work but he will shower you with attention. The hardest thing will be getting that much attention again.

Keeping him in the game

keeping her pleasedIt is understandable that there may be days that you want to ignore his situation. It is alright to not care that all the time that he is not no longer in control of his manhood and you can let him know that you don’t. Still you should not let this go more than a few days without making positive comments about his being locked up for you.

The main thing if you are going to lock him up is that you need to make a commitment to yourself and him to make this work. As the endeavor in to chastity continues you will be able to add ideas and musings to your relationship that you find works well. Remember the basic principles of how to keep your man under your spell. It will let both of you discover chastity’s amazing rewards.

Always maintain the upper hand to show both you and him that your requests are nothing less than a requirement for him. You will never want to let things revert back to his lack of self-control again. Believe me, the routine is effective and over the long term you’ll not regret it even though at times it seems like a lot of work.

There is an old saying among those wives who adopted a chastity lifestyle because their husbands encouraged them – be careful what you wish for. I think some of the husbands, given a choice, would go back to their old ways, but none of the wives would.

I think that deep down the men are happier because they wanted to be sexually controlled by their wives and now they are. Their new reality is often much different than their original fantasy because it is now your fantasy not his. I know the wives, who stuck it out through the trials and tribulations of finding a chastity device that worked and then figuring out how change their mindset from a need to give him orgasms to one of deserving all the orgasms they could ever want. We are all much happier.

A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle

​You are having an affair? Fall in love to your lover maybe? Daydreaming of him all the time? Constantly wet? Your husband gets hard when you tell him something about those things? And he wants you even more? You want to have them both in your life and don’t want to get divorced?

Then Hotwife lifestyle is solution for you then.

So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other man. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are.

If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny.

Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet.

Take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them.

If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever.

A Hotwife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement.

The wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her!

Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine.

In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife.

Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities.

In fact, his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before.

First, go slowly.

Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you.

If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! (When I say anything – I mean anything). And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you. He will get his sexual satisfaction from your encounters with other man, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage!

As you begin, you must remember one very important fact. Hotwifing is not just about sex. It’s also about control. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that.

Hotwifing is about what you want. Your sexual pleasure. Your sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you will enjoy it immensely! Think You not him. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him.

Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hotwife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.)

Remember rule #1 – The goal is for you to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it?

First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning.

If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of You being satisfied.

Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman.

Do not let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this – no choice and no voice.

He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another man’s home, or bring a man into your bedroom (I know you want to try this – it turns you on).

He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, you will love it once it happens, and he will too (even if he doesn’t know why).

When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter.

Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.”

Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”.

That’s it. You have to share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event.

Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night.

It’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples and also your wild-card for your freedom. Share all of the details while he has an erection.

But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on your needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now.

Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!).

Absolutely the best way to tell him all things above is when you have sex with him (with intercourse or without). In the moment of coming he knows that your demand of having sex with another man in unavoidable.

It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him up-to-date of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved.

This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have any sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend even though it is most likely that this will never occur, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you both.

When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine or a new lingerie.

Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc.

Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Let he jerks off besides you while you whisper what you will do that night to your lover. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together.

Here’s another tip: Treat your lover like you treated your husband when you were dating.

Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out!

Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible.

Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight!

When he’s done, continue to pamper him exactly as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door.

After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet.

The next step is very important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hotwife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn all your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hotwife games you played earlier and become all his again!

Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even more for allowing you this night of pleasure!

Depending on the couple, you may or may not have intercourse right away but you have to have some kind of sexual interaction with your husband.

In the beginning try to have intercourse even if you are not in the mood. In later stages you can just give him blowjob or jerk him off while you tell him dirty details.

I personally perform some of above and clean up duty.

This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be extremely arousing for both involved!

It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own.

Your husband usually wants you to order him to perform clean up duty. He cannot explain himself that he allows you to have sex with your lover but if you tie his hands and order him to clean you he doesn’t have choice. Right?

This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hotwife lifestyle.

My biggest turn on is to come back in a sweat lingerie with few drops of my lovers cum both on my breasts and in my vagina. Sometimes I sit on him and sometimes I just jerk him off. It turns me on when I tie him down while he is desperate and horny.

Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever.

Most importantly, remind him that you love the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle.

Tell him how much you enjoyed that night.

Tease him while replaying the night over and over.

Tell him you can’t wait to do it again.

Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you.

After few months you will be bored of having sex with your husband all the time, especially if he is not good in bed like your lover.

That is very delicate part of being a hotwife. In his head everything is about sex.

Even though you love him completely (OK, you love your lover a little bit – aren’t you?), that’s not enough for him. He has to have a kind of sexual interaction with you more or less every single day.

Sounds tough right? It is. Sometimes it makes me crazy and I hate him for not being perceptive for me and my body.

But if you think that is a small price you have to pay for you pleasure and for your marriage (you don’t want to divorce – don’t you?).

So don’t avoid those situations when he wants sex. If you are not in the mood just tell him to jerk off while you tell him some dirty details from your last date or, even better, tell he what you will do next time with your lover.

If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together.

In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you having sex with someone else, as crazy as that might sound.

And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience.

Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you both stay sexually fulfilled.

There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored.

If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing.

To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive.

Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now.

So get out there and get started!

Get a Woman Hot for you

How to get a woman hot

get woman hotThere’s no doubt that being a smooth talker is an extremely effective way to charm women and get a woman hot for you.

However, it’s not the only thing that helps.

Knowing when and how to respectfully initiate physical contact with women can psychologically help them develop emotional and physical interest in you.

And by touching a few completely innocent places on her body you could spark a subconscious reaction that makes her feel an instantly powerful rapport with you – without saying a word.

The kind that, in the right circumstances, could easily build to something more.

Find out the best way to break the touch barrier with a woman in the link below.

Touching a woman here could trigger her most primal attraction

In all likelihood, you use touch to build rapport on a regular basis already.

We do it on non-romantic occasions like hugging a family member, or shaking a work colleague’s hand.

These seemingly innocuous gestures aren’t just for being polite.

Physical contact sets off a psychological trigger in our brain that tells us this person isn’t a threat and make us much more comfortable in their presence, and vice versa.

This simple evolutionary trait has helped humans build relationships for millions of years.

Let’s be honest, when it comes to attractive women, most men hope for a somewhat different reaction when they break the touch barrier.

But even in those situations, respectful touch activates the same psychological trigger of making the woman comfortable in their presence.

Ignite her interest to develop the interaction further

Don’t take my word for it – just check out this surprising study I read recently.

It explored what happened when men asked women to dance in a nightclub.

And the woman they surveyed were far more likely to agree to the man’s request if he touched her on the arm for 1-2 seconds beforehand.

But that’s by no means the most effective way for a man to break the touch barrier.

There’s several other completely innocent body parts that, when a man touches them (as part of normal social interaction) can trigger a chain reaction in her brain that switches up her initial rapport into genuine attraction and desire.

Almost instantly.

Follow the link below to discover the parts in question:

How to break the touch barrier with an attractive woman (and spark her desire back)

Make a Woman Orgasm Hard

Make a woman orgasm hard

make a woman orgasm hardIf you want to make a woman orgasm hard, forget fingering techniques, forget oral sex, forget sex toys. Discover the secret to giving your lover intense orgasms during full blown intercourse from the experts.

Don’t be like Dave. His relationship with his wife of 13 years was not in a good spot. It was pretty much sexless.

Dave couldn’t understand why his wife was ‘never in the mood’. Dave always gave his wife oral and a clitoral orgasm before intercourse whenever they did have sex.

Long story short. Clitoral orgasms aren’t enough to truly satisfy a woman. There is a more simple technique to give a woman multiple orgasms during intercourse.

Dave was skeptical. He did not have a massive cock. He had never given her an orgasm during intercourse in 13 years.

Here’s what I’m really excited about and the reason I’m writing this post: If you want to make a woman orgasm hard and make her want to fulfill all your desires, check out the video below.

Make a woman orgasm hard by activating female sexual desire

It may seem too good to be true. But you can produce a dramatic breakthrough in triggering deep sexual desire in women.

Let me ask you. Have you ever been with a woman and it’s clear there’s no sexual energy?

The kind of experience where you know if you even tried something sexual you’d get rapidly rejected?

You can substantially reduce the chances of this happening to you again.

Get an edge to help you attract more beautiful women. Make a woman orgasm hard every time you get her into the sack.

To discover exactly how you can use this to more easily trigger sexual desire in women, watch the video below.

Fundamentally it’s a biological reaction that takes place in the brain. It’s only from there that she starts thinking sexual thoughts and acting on them.

How to make a woman orgasm hard in different ways

If you’re currently relying on only one or two different orgasm types to satisfy your woman you are making a big mistake. Discover many different types of orgasm you can start giving your lover.

Let me ask you a question – Are you unhappy with the amount of sex your getting?

Are you frustrated that your lover doesn’t yell and scream your name out loud every time you make love?

stay hard in bed pillsDo you ever wish your lover beg you for sex, instead of having to chase her for it?

Do you ever dream of having the power to make a woman orgasm hard? Or give her so much pleasure that her body shakes with ecstasy and becomes physically addicted to having sex with you?

If you answered yes to any of these questions then it’s likely you’re stuck in a very linear way of thinking when it orgasms to satisfying women in bed.

Now I’m not pointing any fingers. For a long time I was the same.

Who would ever have thought there were so many different types of female orgasms? It’s not exactly the kind of thing we’re taught in school now, is it?

But the truth is that there are many different types of orgasm you can give a woman. There’s are many different ways to make a woman orgasm hard.

And if you’re not utilizing them, this could be the reason why your lover isn’t jumping all over you, begging to have sex night after night.

To ensure the next time you have sex truly blows her mind use the techniques necessary to give her these different types of orgasm.

You won’t believe how she responds when you start giving her body this type of stimulation.

Get full details on the different types of orgasm below.

How To Create A Date That Leads To Sex

Have you ever wanted to turn a date into an exciting, fun and passionate sexual experience in the bedroom. But then struggled to figure out all the actual ways of making it happen?

Or how to naturally transition a seemingly platonic, average or uneventful date into a wild passionate sex-filled experience? The truth is that most guys struggle with this.

Most guys would love to turn their dates into nights of exciting and engrossing love-making.

But few know how to pull it off. And honestly, this is one of those things you need to do just right.

Take a wrong step in the process and you can fall flat on your face, get rejected or just end up watching a movie on the couch with no sexual electricity to be felt whatsoever.

But if you get it right you’ll know one the biggest secrets to triggering intense sexual desire in a woman.

Check out the video below to discover how to make it happen.

make a woman have powerful orgasms

Increase female libido

How to increase your wife / girlfriend’s libido

increase female libidoIf you want to increase your wife’s desire for you, take heart.

With the right specific trigger words and phrases, any man can increase female libido and  ignite powerful sexual desire in your wife or girlfriend.

Maybe you’ve been happily married for decades, or you’re only on your second date. Either way, these methods get a woman in the mood quickly and easily work.

Listen to the video below for the techniques that could have her begging for sex.

If you’re like most couples, the early days of your relationship were probably wild. You could barely keep your hands off each other for night after night of passionate sex.

But nowadays, it’s always a different excuse for why she doesn’t want sex. She’s too tired, she’s in a bad mood, it was a long day at work, and so on.

It’s a tough situation to be in. But here’s the crucial bit:

If her libido’s currently low – it can still go back up again

By understanding a bit about female psychology, you’ll realise that, subconsciously, she probably still loves sex.

Over time, her rational brain starts suppressing these feelings. But it’s possible to help her express them again – by using the right language.

No matter how long she hasn’t been interested.

Each woman has specific trigger words that increase female libido and set off her attraction without engaging her rational brain.

For instance, if you’ve tried talking about how good the sex would feel.

Tell her instead how good she would make you feel – specifically using “you”.

Describing sex in general describes an act – something she has to do.

female libido boosterThis might set off the rational objection that it’s too much effort after a long day.

But talking about her bypasses this – as it feels more like a shared experience of passion.

She’ll subconsciously feel appreciated that you enjoy the pleasure she alone gives you.

And this can flick the switch in her mind that activates her inner sexual beast.

Leaving her desperate to satisfy you sexually.

That’s just one way language can help bypass her rational brain.

For the phrases that can unleash a raw sexual side to her you never knew existed, listen to the video below.

You don’t need to be an experienced seduction guru for these words to work.

Any man can strategically use these words at just the right moment to activate seriously powerful arousal in women.

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How to make a woman want you more sexually

Make her want you more sexually

how to make a woman want youSince you asked how to make a woman want you more sexually I want to reveal to you a very powerful foreplay technique.

You can use this technique in multiple ways to make a woman want you more sexually.

It can turn your disinterested wife, girlfriend or casual lover  into a sex-craved kitten desperate for cock. you can use it to turn your lover from being mildly aroused to begging for you to put it in.

To understand this concept first appreciate how it feels when someone does this technique to you.

Tease her

So let me ask you a question – Have you ever been cock teased? In other words, have you ever been in bed with a woman and she’s acted like you were going to have sex, but it never actually happened?

Have you ever had it when she does everything to indicate that you’re going to get some kind of sexual pleasure, but then it never happens?

If you have, then think back to that time now. If you haven’t, then imagine as if a woman did do this – and play along as we work through this example.

The way a woman will typically do this is she’ll begin touching and feeling different parts of your body. She’ll normally start with the less sensitive parts. Like the arms, chest, stomach, back or legs. She’ll gradually hint as if she’s going to move her hands to your more sensitive area.

She may move her hands towards and gesture as if she was going to grab your penis. But then she’ll pull back and go back to stimulating other parts of you.

Now I have a question for you:

How does it make you feel when it seems like she’s about to grab your penis?

If you’re like most men, it’ll drive you wild with excitement. You know how much pleasure you’re about to get. It would be even more pleasurable for you if she makes you wait before she grabbed your crotch.

Teasing works for her too

Well, women feel the same away. Actually, women experience this 10x the way us men do. If you think you get more excited when you get teased, women experience this at 10x the intensity.

When you tease a woman in a powerful way like this it really does drive them wild.  It gives them passion, excitement and arousal.  It makes a woman want you more sexually.

Integrate teasing like this into every aspect of your foreplay. Right up until the point at which you finally enter her.  It’s then not uncommon to have her beg you or physically grab you and insert you into her.

This process can be that powerful when done right. I highly recommend you start using it. It’s how to make a woman want you more sexually.

Now, I’ve really only scratched the surface as to how to use methods like this to stimulate women in a way that makes them desperate for sex.

When it comes to sex, women are very much stimulation-response creatures. In other words, if you perform a certain action you’ll get a predictable response. But in order to get the kind of responses like intense multiple orgasms you need to know the precise stimulations to trigger them.

Discover those triggers here:

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make a woman want you for sexYou’ve probably heard of a type of Viagra for women but really this is the lazy way to drive her wild and begging for sex.

With the techniques in the video and associated lessons you can learn how to make a woman want you more sexually with using any kind of female Viagra at all.

Make a girl go crazy over you

How to make a girl go crazy over you

make a girl go crazy over youIf you want to discover the tricks to make a girl go crazy over you, to think about you all the time, and want to jump in bed with you every chance she gets, read on.

Now you’ve probably heard the cliché about women loving bad boys.

Technically, it’s true. But it doesn’t mean treating women arrogantly or rudely.

Bad boys are great at using flirting to build attraction and it’s a skill you too can master.

Now you can discover how becoming a great flirt could transform your sex life.

Lots of men don’t understand what a bad boy actually is. They think it means being more aggressive and arrogant towards women to spark their attraction.

Of course, most women just find this incredibly disrespectful and rude.

Remember this: “bad” doesn’t mean what most people think it means.

It’s more accurate to describe bad boys as mischievous, cocky or cheeky.

Here’s why:

They’re good at playfully building sexual tension with women, and are just generally fun to be around.

And one of the most effective ways they do that is with flirting.

I know that flirting can feel awkward the first few times you try it.

But it’s fairly easy to naturally mix it into your normal conversation and it can make your interactions with women more entertaining and enjoyable – for both you and them.

Here’s an example.

Suppose you’re speaking to a beautiful woman, and she tells you she’s a teacher.

Jokingly say something like what a shame, I could never be with someone that intelligent.

Not only is this a decent self-deprecating joke (if I say so myself), it’s one of the oldest reverse-psychological tricks in the book.

By implying that nothing could ever happen sexually you’ve planted the idea of a sexual relationship in her head.

And, ironically, she starts to dwell on the idea of sex with you more and more and finds it increasingly appealing. These techniques can really make a girl fall for you.

Obviously, this won’t always happen. It doesn’t guarantee attraction.

But you’ve at least made her consider you in a more sexual context.

And, once you’ve established that initial friendly rapport, that’s when genuine attraction can start to develop.

But flirting isn’t the only way to get women seeing you as a sexual being.

Warch the below to discover more advanced conversational techniques for building instant rapport and deeper, primal lust in women.

A sure way to make a girl go crazy over you – if that is what you want. This will not just trigger a girl to want you – it will trigger her to want sex from you, hot sex, and often. Can you handle that?

So using these techniques will make a girl think of you all the time. Even obssess over you. If you can handle that, click on the picture below to see the video and find out how.

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How to Get Your Girlfriend to Want Sex

Get her to want more sex

get your girlfriend to want sexIf you feel like you’re stuck in a relationship where the sex has dried up – it’s time to do something radical to get your girlfriend to want sex again.

Sometimes if you’ve been with your partner for a long time things can become routine.

Perhaps you go to bed at different times. Or perhaps whenever you get to bed together you’re both exhausted. Maybe the situation with your kids makes having sex very challenging. Or perhaps sex just seems like something you don’t do any more.

If you can relate to any of the above or things have in any way become routine the best way to change things is to be radical.

Small changes lead to big changes

Instead of trying to make small changes here and there you need to do something huge.

You need to smash your current patterns to pieces if you’re serious about getting regular sex back. Now this may sound intimidating or challenging. But all the sex that’ll come from it will be well worth it.

So, with that said, what kind of radical change can you make? Well to get a lot more sex it all comes down to behaviour. If you want to see a huge change in results (i.e. a lot more sex) then you need to make a huge change in behaviour.

If right now you do very little to arouse your partner, then you need to start doing a lot.

And if you do very little to surprise your partner, then you need to start doing a lot.

If right now you don’t do things like:

  • give her massages,
  • light scented candles,
  • run her aromatic baths,
  • play romantic music,
  • cook or take her out for her favorite dinner,

then you need to start doing this stuff (a lot) to get your girlfriend to want sex again.

See, the key here is to take the focus from blaming her and put it on actions you can take..

Sure, it may be true that she is the one who isn’t keen for sex at the moment, but in order to make her want sex from you look at what you can do to get her to want it.

Get your girlfriend to want sex

And you’ve got to completely break your current sex-less routine by becoming a radically different person.

Give to your girlfriend like you’ve never given to her before and do so without expecting anything in return.

If you start giving to her while constantly expecting reward or recognition you will fail. If the changes you start to make really are radical she will likely challenge you and your new changes.

She will test you to know if these changes are real or if you’re doing just them to try and get something.

If you fail these tests by reacting to her or getting frustrated by the lack of recognition you won’t get the new sex life you’re looking for.

However, remain patient. Trust that she’ll eventually welcome the changes. She will eventually welcome them and it will make her horny and get her very hot for you.

90 day challenge

Now the best way to do this is to set yourself a 90 day challenge.

For the next 90 days give everything you have to your girlfriend. Fulfill all of her needs beyond levels you ever have before. Do stuff that previously you weren’t willing to do. And do so without expecting anything in return.

Do so because you love your girlfriend and enjoy giving to her . Trust that as a result she’ll eventually open up and want to return it.

It’s a big challenge, but it’s a life changing one and one that will also lead to a whole lot more sex.

And if you’d like to learn more details about how to most effectively complete a challenge like this.

Or you’d like to discover other strategies to get your girlfriend to want more sex, then check out the video of mine below.

Watch the whole video to learn these advanced techniques to make a girlfriend want sex like she never has before.

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Make a woman wild in bed – The techniques You Need to Use

If you want to make a woman wild in bed learn these tricks

make a woman wild in bed If you’d like me to walk you through step-by-step how to give ANY woman an intense multiple orgasm then watch the video below.

It will give you the techniques and tricks you need to make a woman wild in bed.

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have your lover get on her knees, kiss your feet and literally beg you to sleep with her?

Well, listen closely because I’m about to show you exactly how to do it.

I’m going to give you a special technique. When used correctly on a woman, it will give her such intense stimulation. It will give her intense pleasure so that she’ll likely become physically addicted to the feeling it gives her. She will literally become wild in bed and need that intense feeling again and again and again …

So addicted, that she can’t help but beg you to do it again. This is the surest way to make a woman wild in bed!!!

And what’s more is this technique isn’t just for the small percentage of women who orgasm easily in bed. This works on virtually any woman. Even if she often seems cold, isn’t that interested in making love or thinks she can’t orgasm in bed.

The Dual Stimulation technique

And it’s very simple. It means you stimulate two of her most powerful pleasure points simultaneously.

Now there are a number of different combinations and ways to make this work, which you can discover in the video. But let me give you one right now that you can begin using immediately.

It’s this:

priligy onlineWhen in bed get your lover in the reverse cow girl position – this is when you lie on your back and she squats on top facing away from you.

Next, do the following – sit up and reach one of your arms around her and begin to stimulate her clitoris with your hands.

Now take care when stimulating the clitoris. Try to lubricate your hands and don’t go too strong to start. This is a very sensitive area.

Circular motion clitoral stimulation

A good starting technique for clitoral stimulation is to perform a circular motion on it.

Now here’s what happens when you do this:

It means you’re stimulating both the Clitoris (with your hands) and the Vagina (through
making love) at the same time.

If you’ve never done this you will be blown away by how powerful this can be.

Seriously.

Do this right and she will literally melt in your arms, her eyes will roll into the back of her head and she will positively moan like you’ve never experienced before. This will make a woman come every time.

And if you have already tried a technique similar to this – you probably already know what I’m  talking about here. But if not, then try this again, this time following my exact instructions.

Now what you’ve just discovered is really only the tip of the iceberg.

There are many more advanced ways to give your lover the kind pleasure that will make her do anything just to jump in bed with you again.

To discover those, check out the video.

Grab a pen and pad, get ready to take some notes, and make sure you watch the whole thing through if you really want to know how to make a woman wild in bed.

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Get a Girl to Kiss Me

How to get a girl to kiss me

get a girl to kiss meYou’re about to learn, hands down, the best way to get a girl to kiss me (you) without fear of rejection.

You can even get the girl you’re talking to to lean in to kiss you!

Have you ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss or you’ve gotten ‘the cheek’? Well you know having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial.

Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because:

1) You’ve invested a lot of time by this point in the interaction. There simply isn’t enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on.

2) Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction.

Most guys don’t have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently!

Even on a good night, most guys will typically find one girl they hit it off with at the bar. A girl where a kiss is probably even a possibility.

So normally, you’d have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss.

But luckily, I’ve already gone through all those failures for you (until I discovered this killer technique). I can present the best way to avoid failure and shortcut right to success.

Get a kiss without fear of rejection

The ‘get a girl to kiss me’ Kiss Technique makes it so that when you’re speaking to a woman, you can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her think about kissing you!

Pretty powerful stuff.

If you use this technique, suddenly making a woman want to kiss you will be something you have control over.

If you decide to “wing it” in the stage like most guys, however, you’re going to run into problems.

First, you won’t know how physically receptive she is to kissing you. A tried and true rule to go by is this:

Your hesitation = Her reservation

So the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations.

When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don’t do it the right way at the right time, you’ll come off as needy. She’ll think you don’t have a lot of options with women. Why? If you did have a lot of options, you wouldn’t be worrying about the kiss with this girl.

So how do we show that you are absolutely not needy (even if you kind of feel like you are)? How do you eliminate fear of rejection? How will you know for sure ahead of time that she is wanting to kiss you?

We use what’s called ‘get a girl to kiss me’

The Kiss Technique

This involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss.

The first concept is called triangular gazing.

This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then looking at her mouth.

When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to think about kissing her. This action is already anchored to the thought of kissing someone.

Even if you look at a woman you’re not attracted to and look at her mouth, you can start to think about kissing her. You will become more attracted to her.

The good news is – the same happens for women.

The even better news is – you can lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted. How?

By using the second half of the recipe. Another psychological concept called Mirroring.

Mirroring

Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with them.

When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a combination that will make her subconsciously think about kissing you.

After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first, only for 2 seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer.

Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for 2 seconds, 3 seconds, then 5 seconds.

Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth.

When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she’s ready to kiss you.

Voila! The ‘get a girl to kiss me’ Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of “making a move”.

You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you. You get to be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly sexy.

She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman. She feel safe and confident moving on with you.

Now, take this technique to the next level. Make it so that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss them. You only have to know one magical sentence.

Learn more about the ‘get a girl to kiss me’ Kiss Technique and the bizarre, magical sentence that activates her “sexual triggers”. It makes her lean and practically beg you for the kiss.

Click the link below to get the inside details 🙂

Become a Seduction Master in Three easy Steps

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