What to do when she orgasms

How to send her into mind-blowing ecstasy when she orgasms

Jason JuliusI received a great question from a client wanting to know what to do once his girlfriend begins to have her orgasm. He asked:

What do I do when she orgasms?


A lot of people say and do speed-up whatever stimulus they are applying, much like a man’s escalation to his orgasm when she orgasms.

But when I slow down my motions, almost as if to tease her during her orgasm, that she experiences a much more prolonged and pleasurable orgasm.

I’ve also noticed holding her, maybe on the last orgasm of the night, brings her to a very emotionally connected state of mind.

Do you have any words of wisdom on or beyond this topic?  Specifically things that amplify or give even more pleasure to her orgasms?

My Answer: What to do during her orgasm

when she orgasmsAt the time a woman is experiencing a full body vaginal orgasm you will actually stop touching her and let her experience the orgasm.

In most cases her vagina will clamp down on your finger. You can leave your fingers inside as she experiences the orgasm. Often times her vaginal wall will swell so much it will actually push you out of her when she orgasms (typical of female ejaculation).

Stimulation during the actual orgasm may even be annoying to her as she will be VERY sensitive.

Let her experience the orgasm for the moment and when her body begins to relax. Resume vaginal stimulation. Often times you will be able to fire off another orgasm shortly after the first one.

Rhythm is the key

In terms of the actual escalation to the orgasm, rhythm is key. Find a steady pressure and rhythm and keep it steady and let her body do the work.

If you suddenly change the speed as she progresses to the orgasm it’s going to throw her off.

Imagine when you’re getting a great BJ and she’s hitting the sweet spot. But right before you’re ready to blow she stops or completely changes what she’s doing and it screws you up.

It’s sort of the same thing only more important when it comes to female orgasms. Keeping a constant rhythm helps women get to the mental place their mind needs to be in.

Gradually slowing down the rhythm as you describe can lead to more anticipation and more build up to the orgasm. Which is great. What I’m talking about above is when you completely break rhythm.

Holding her while she orgasms is very powerful emotionally for her. It’s also very rewarding as a man to hold a woman in your arms. You just gave her one of most pleasurable experiences of her life!

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Give her mind-blowing sex tonight

Tips to give give her mind-blowing sex with strong orgasms

give her mind-blowing sexEveryone loves to have great sex. And contrary to conventional wisdom, women love sex as much as guys do, if not more! Read these tips below to learn how to give her mind-blowing sex regularly.

But what if you feel that your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary and needs a little oomph? Well, there is plenty you can do to turn your ordinary sexual experiences into toe-curling erotic adventures in (and out!) of the bedroom and give her mind-blowing sex day in and day out.

Discover 69 sensuous tips for making your wife or partner melt in between the sheets and giving her the best sex ever.

1 Get her engines warmed up

The bedroom becomes a drab place if you’ve lost (or never found) the art of teasing your woman to arouse and excite her. Women aren’t turned on instantly but once they do, they can stay aroused for a long time. Use your hands and tongue to heighten her anticipation and sexily craft an atmosphere of desire. Focus the first 10 minutes exclusively on her… it will soon get her erotic engine purring.

2 Let her on top

Instead of the standard missionary position, let her get on top so that she has total rhythmic control over the speed and intensity of penetration. This position also enables you to stimulate her breasts and clitoris and build up her arousal quickly. For a variation of this position, have her face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating her G-spot with your penis.

3 Try a little being caught risk

Nothing gets a woman aroused faster than the risk of being caught in the act. It’s the ultimate taboo. If she’s all for the idea, try it! Be bold, be adventurous and use a little imagination. Try out this fun fantasy in the fitting room of a retail store. As she heads to the fitting room, slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, all amidst other shoppers in the background.

4 Erotic films exposure

Watch an erotic film together during one of your intimate nights. Pick any suggestive videos that both of could snuggle up to. Pay close attention to the scenes in the media material because after viewing
some of them, you should be ready to relive each moment. Do a remake of the scenes and let these run for 15 to 20 minutes.

5 Hide and seek oral sex

When both of you are at home, one of you go hide out. Whoever finds each other will perform oral sex. Have fun for a few minutes then hide and seek out each other again. Do this a few times and soon her clitoris will be throbbing in ecstasy… and she will crave for you to enter her.

6 Power of sweet nothings

A woman’s mind is the central repository of all her sexual emotions and energy. Thus your words and the way you touch her can be the gateway to turning her on. Whispering sexily into her ears is a very
powerful skill and a good start place to start. Gentle, non-sexual touching works wonderfully well too. This can be something as simple as running your fingers through her hair or holding her close to you.

7 Mix it up and avoid routine

The fastest way to bedroom boredom is to keep doing the same things, same techniques, same positions over and over again. Try something new. If you regularly make out in the bedroom, try out in the backyard, on the dining table, in the laundry room (right on top of the washer!).

8 G-spot stimulation

Let her lie on her back, lift her legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then enter her. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit her G-spot, especially if you have a penis that bends slightly
upwards when erect. Hint: Give her simultaneous clitoral stimulation using your thumb while you are penetrating her. This will double her pleasure and prime her for a truly fulfilling orgasm… only faster!

9 Take your time

Cliche as it may sound, sex is not something done with clockwork precision. Relax and enjoy each other’s company and body. For a woman, sex is as much an emotional experience as it is a physical one. Start on the right foot and you will set the stage for a sensational orgasm for her later.

10 Cunnilingus orgasms

Oral sex alone can trigger an amazing orgasm in a woman… even without sexual penetration. A good 10 minutes is enough to set her up for the big ‘O’ very quickly. Try tracing the letters of the alphabet with
your tongue on her; she will find this extremely arousing as your tongue stimulates her in different directions. Hint: She will love the lower-case letter “i”, with the dot hitting her with erotic pleasure.

11 Sex toys?

No matter how good you are in bed, sometimes you need a little “help” to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Choose one that is intended for anal stimulation. Anal stimulation, together with clitoral stimulation with your tongue, can provide a deadly “combo” and give a woman incredible pleasure.

12 Pleasurable position

Have her lean over the edge of the bed so that the top half of her body is flat against the bed. Then penetrate her from behind while you’re standing or kneeling. This position makes penetration extremely
pleasuring for both of you.

13 Sex and food

There are a thousand things you can do with food… in your bedroom! Smear whipped cream all over your partner’s body and then lick it off… sloooowly! You can even try chocolate for a more flavored
experience. Spread the good stuff all over your partner’s body. Licking it off slowly will take her over the moon.

14 Broadening stimulation

While you rub, stroke and stimulate her clitoris, do the same to her breast, mouth or even her toes – or anywhere that she loves to be touched. This works magically to ramp up her anticipation to a level
that you can easily bring her to an orgasm later.

15 Standing sex

Having intercourse in a standing position can be extremely arousing. Let her face you while standing, with her back to the wall. Open her legs just a little and penetrate her from the front. For the extra climatic factor, do this with both your clothes on, with her just wearing a skirt and no panties.

16 Give her mind-blowing sex with G-spot stimulation

Once she is well-lubricated, insert two fingers into her vagina to locate and arouse her G-spot (it feels a ribbed bump, a little like the roof of your mouth). Rub against it with your fingers using a “come here” movement. You can also stimulate the G-spot during penetrative sex – especially in the doggie-style position – and give her sensational squirting orgasms.

17 Don’t neglect her neck

Women love to be touched on their necks with tender loving strokes. The lower neck are full of nerve endings, so every single touch with your fingertips to that erogenous zone will pleasure her to no end. Hint: Try planting some delicate kisses on her neck while you’re stroking it. It will amp up her anticipation very quickly.

18 The harder the better

A penis ring reduces the amount of blood draining out of your erection, and keeps you harder for a longer period. Did you know that a very hard penis stimulates a woman’s vagina slightly differently? In fact, the sensations are much more intense compared to a member that is getting soft around the edges.

19 Work up to her breasts

A woman’s breast is an erogenous area that men love to touch. But it pays to be patient. If you focus on the rest of her body first, starting with her hands, wrist, her neck, it will get her aroused much faster.
When she’s highly aroused, move on to her breast and nipples, gently kissing, stroking and licking them.

20 Hot kitchen sex

Many women fantasise making out in the kitchen, so why not have a go in the “hottest” place at home. If this is something new to her, chances are, it will blow her mind too. Think about it… your kitchen
has plenty of comfortable nooks and corners that are comfortable for oral sex or even intercourse. Get her up on the kitchen counter, the dining table, or even the kitchen sink. Be adventurous, take your
chances and spice things up. This little surprise will UP the excitement for her.

21 Dirty dialogue

Most men don’t know what truly turns a woman on in between the sheets. The way to this is simply ask her! Get into some hot dirty dialog. Observe her when she touches herself and learn where her hot
buttons are, then stimulate her the same way. This will get her sexual desires up in a hurry.

22 Tongue her hot

Oral sex works exceptionally well to get a woman all hot and sexy under the sheets. If you want to send her over the erotic edge every single time, try this: gently stimulate her clitoris. When you see she’s
slowly getting aroused, vary the intensity of your tongue movement. This will push her closer to orgasm very quickly.

23 Coloured lights

Turn on a purple-coloured light bulb in the bedroom for that extra sensuality. This color is known to intensify a woman’s orgasm… plus, it adds a really hot and sexy backdrop for any lovemaking session.

24 Start at the edges

There are plenty of erogenous zones where you can work her up to an erotic frenzy without even starting intercourse. Stroke the bottom of her neck at the back, and watch her get aroused. Now stroke and kiss her neck… this will send her sexual anticipation soaring very quickly.

25 Enhanced doggy-style can give her mind-blowing sex

The doggy-style is a great position that women love, because it is primal and can give them wild orgasms when you penetrate with the right angle and tempo. Here’s a little variation that will blow her mind: Instead of getting her down on all fours, place a pillow beneath her tummy and let on lie flat on the bed. This slight elevation helps you thrust downwards into her orgasmic zone and stimulate the upper walls of her vagina.

26 Anal teasing

Still on the subject of doggy-style…While you are penetrating her, allow only your penis to touch her. Lick your finger to lubricate it with your saliva and rub it against her anus (make sure you keep your nails clean and trimmed). If she’s clearly enjoying what you are doing, slowly insert your fingertip into her anus. Withdraw your finger and repeat again. The stimulation to both her vagina and anus can bring a woman to an amazingly intense orgasm.

27 Tease her with speed control

When you’re penetrating her, vary the speed and intensity, and make sure your pubic mound is rubbing against her clitoris. When she’s on the brink of orgasm, slow down your penetrations. She will want you to give it to her as feverishly as you can. This trick will not only make you last longer and boost your sexual stamina, she will get a mind-blowing orgasm just knowing how erotically you’re teasing her!

28 Share sexual fantasies

You’ll be pleasantly surprised that your partner has plenty of sex fantasies that she’s probably keeping them from you – because you never ask! So why not have some dirty talk with her. If she’s too shy to
open up, then share your fantasies with her! Both of you could very well act out her fantasies and have a night both of you will never forget.

29 Kegel exercises

Most women need at least 10 to 15 minutes of stimulation before they can climax. Unfortunately, most guys last only a short 2-4 minutes. Kegel exercises are great for improving sexual stamina by
strengthening the PC muscle. You can locate this muscle by halting your urine flow midway; the muscle that you feel contracting is the PC muscle. Doing kegels for just 5 minutes a day for 2 weeks can make
you last as long as she does, or even outlast her.

30 Lips attention

Her soft, sweet lips hold thousands of tiny nerve endings. You’d be pleasantly surprised how this simple gesture can turn her on very easily. Kiss her and give her lips some tender loving attention. The trick is to start slow, plant gentle kisses, then kick up into a more intense and passionate mode.

31 Don’t dive straight in

When giving women oral sex, many men make the mistake of jumping right in and start stimulating their partners with their tongue. Women are analog. You need to slowly turn the dial to heat her up. Take your time to playfully tease her; kiss her on her neck and nibble on her ear lobes; gently stroke her inner thighs. All these little gestures will turn a woman on quickly and get her ready before you start going down on her.

32 Totally naked is not always best

Don’t undress completely during sex. Let the rough texture of your clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. Then undress her and watch her as your clothing brushes against her skin – your shirt buttons, belt buckles, the tail of your shirt. These things can create incredibly sexy sensations in her. No woman can resist the spell of a man on top of her, fully dressed!

33 Give her a hand job

Most men don’t regard a woman’s hand as sexy. But her hands and wrists are highly sensitive areas that she would love you to touch her. Try gently stroking her palm or on the inside of her wrist. Give a long gentle stroke from her inner wrist all the way to her lower arm. This will get her aroused and wanting more.

34 Role playing

Explore and act out her fantasies. Let her release all her hidden desires. If she’s too shy to suggest any, lead her on! Have her play these delightful roles: high-school discipline master, cheerleader, White House intern or even a policewoman (complete with handcuffs and baton). Use your imagination.

35 Ear orgasm?

A woman’s ears are one of the most sensual parts of her body. Try leaning your body against hers, gently whispering into her ear. Tell her how much you want and adore her. The gentle stir of warm air around her ear will heighten her sexual anticipation.

36 Take your time

Refrain from heading straight for her genitals. Instead, tease her playfully. For example, kiss her gently, allowing your tongue to work its magic on her sensual spots from her ears, to her neck, down her
navel (skip her vagina) and traverse down her inner thighs to her toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual anticipation. And when you finally decide to reach those sensitive zones, her heart will be racing and her chances of achieving a toe-curling, sheet-gripping orgasm will increase tenfold. She will beg you to get physical.

37 Spice it up with different places

Instead of the bedroom, try making out in the bathroom. The steamy mist from the running hot water will ramp up her sexual temperatures. The bathtub makes for one hot titillating place to make out. Or have her bend over the basin and penetrate her from behind. Better yet, do this in someone else’s bathroom for that added erotic adventure!

38 Observe and repeat

Observe where and how your woman touches herself during sex. Then do the same to her, stimulating her the same way. This will amp up her erotic enjoyment in the bedroom.

39 Many hands and fingers

Stimulating her clitoris alone can get her aroused; it just takes longer. If you also simultaneously caress another part of her that she loves – her breasts, lips, ears, even her toes – you will easily send her heightened anticipation through the roof.

40 Public places?

Just about everyone had fantasied about having sex in a public place. This can add plenty of spice and anticipation and make it a really hot sexual encounter. Need some quick ideas? Try the porch swing, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a public restroom, in a quiet state park, or on the beach – right on the lifeguard’s chair.

41 Easy does it

The way you stimulate a woman’s clitoris is important. When she is not properly aroused, touching or stimulating the clitoris may feel uncomfortable. Give her indirect stimulation first. Run your fingers on each side of her clitoris shaft and caress her clitoral hood with your thumb. When she becomes aroused, she will be breathing heavily and the clitoral hood will swell up. This is when you know she’s ready for more and ready for some mind-blowing sex.

42 Grinding to ecstasy

No matter how hard or how deep you penetrate her, you are unlikely to stimulate her enough to climax. Instead of thrusting straight in, perform a grinding movement, using your hips to mimic a rotational motion. This works great for her because your pelvic bone will rub against her clitoris and sufficiently stimulate her to an orgasm.

43 Keep the rhythm going

Be consistent with your movement and rhythm during intercourse. If she likes what you are doing, keep at it. Many men forget about this and attempt to change the pace just when their partners are getting into the mood, only to bring their women back to square one. If you sense that she can’t take it anymore, this means she’s about to hit the peak. Keep the tempo going and you will bring her over the edge and give her mind-blowing sex.

44 Sensual massages

Devote ample time to get her aroused and excited. Sensual massages work really well with many women. This form of massage is like any other types of massage; the only difference is that it focuses more on her erogenous zone or sensitive hot buttons. Lavish her with your seductive ways and she will show you the signs that she is ready for you to take it to the next step.

45 Use both your fingers and tongue

When you are giving her oral sex, there is nothing to stop you from leveraging on the magic from your fingers. If you know how to use both your fingers and tongue, you will exponentially intensify her
pleasure. Here’s the trick: when you are kissing her clitoris, use your thumb or index finger to rub it simultaneously.

46 Erotic adult literature

Tickle her fancy to make her more open to sex. Some erotic adult literature can be a great help too. For example, before you tuck her in for the night, read her some pages from those adult materials. She may
have more than just sleep on her mind!

47 Appreciate her body

A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the focal point of her orgasm. If you can make her feel comfortable in your presence and make out with you with total abandon, giving her a powerful
climax is just a clitoral rub away. Hint: Learn to genuinely appreciate her body. This is extremely powerful in getting her to relax. Many women feel insecure about their bodies. So compliment her body and make her feel sexy about herself.

48  Take note and replicate

Sex toys are great ways to learn more about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. Pay attention to her so you can sexually synchronise with her. For instance, if she has a vibrator, ask her to
show you how to use it. Take note of the speed, angle and the kind of pressure that she likes and then replicate these on her using your tongue, fingers or your penis. She’ll be blown away and you can give her mind-blowing sex as a consequence.

49 In the open

There is something about engaging in sexual acts in the open that turns women on. If you have a balcony at home, it is a great place to slowly tease her into having sex “in the open”. You can engage in some light foreplay in the bedroom and when you get her sufficiently aroused, offer to give her a more “sensual service” in the balcony.

50 Variation to the missionary position

This is a variation to the missionary position. Instead of embracing her face-down, raise her lower back using a pillow, sit on your knees and penetrate her fully. While you are thrusting, moisten your index and
forefinger and stimulate her clitoris simultaneously. To make things more fun, encourage your partner to rub her clitoris with you. After a few moments, remove your hands and enjoy the sight of her pleasing
herself. Coupled with your simultaneous thrusting, this will enhance and intensify her orgasms.

51 Sex and water

Sex and water makes for a tantalising combo. If you have a swimming pool in your backyard, this will be great for some water oral sex with a little privacy. You can go down on her at the pool side, on the steps or even on an inflatable boat right in the middle of the pool. Don’t have a swimming pool? Your own bathtub works just as great!

52 Do it in the kitchen

The kitchen offers plenty of props that will spice things up if you plan to have oral sex. Whipped cream, ice cream or even liquid chocolate are all great companions to give her a sizzling oral session. And there is no lack of locations in the kitchen too. The kitchen sink, the dining table, the counter all offer comfortable places to give her a great time.

53 Try something new

Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to try something new, but held back because of what your woman may think? If so, it’s time to break out of that rut, because there’s a great chance that she wants to try something new! But like you, she may be uncomfortable to bring this up. Don’t let these thoughts hold you back. Get creative, get bold and spice things up a notch in the bedroom!

54 Surprise her

Surprise her once in a while by taking her on when she least expects it. For example, when she’s expecting you to perform on the bed, do it against a wall and take her on. Do it with your clothes on. That is a huge turn on for women. Better still, get into the act about 10 minutes before someone is due for a visit! The sheer suddenness, the wildness and the thrill of getting caught with your pants down will give her mind-blowing sex.

55 Never skip foreplay

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, take your time and make sure she is adequately aroused first. If you can focus some time on foreplay, you will actually intensity her orgasms later. Or for that matter, she may very well get one during foreplay itself. So heighten her anticipation first and the both of you will enjoy a far more sizzling time together.

56 Oral sex humming

Give your tongue some needed rest in between strokes during oral sex. To spice things up, try the “humming” technique. Make use of any melody that you can think of and hum it, with the position of your head remaining unchanged. The vibration from the sound you are making will reach the vagina, providing additional stimulation to her clitoris.

57 Ambience

Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Spin some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood. Sip on a glass of wine and introduce some CD that is hot and delectable to turn up her
passion. If you have a fireplace, cuddle up together and seek out her pleasure spots.

58 Sweet kisses

Suck on an ice cube or sip on a cold drink just before you kiss her. Or consume some foods such as strawberries or honey to introduce some tantalizing sweetness in your mouth when you kiss. She will get hot really fast and you will give her mind-blowing sex.

59 Give her butt love

Why not give her butt some loving attention? Lie her down on her front, apply some warm oil and gentle massage her butt. Then proceed to caress and lick them. When you sense she’s totally relaxed and getting comfortable, part her buttocks and lick her anus. This will send her into a sexual frenzy like no other. When she’s getting really hot and excited, turn her over and let your lovemaking begin.

60 Furniture sex

Sex furniture is a great way to spice up the whole sexual experience. You can experiment with intercourse positions that you don’t usually get with flat surfaces such as like beds or mattresses. With  stimulated during sex.

61 From behind

Penetrate your partner from behind, with both of you lying on your sides. Allow her top leg to slip over your hip while you pull her buttocks towards your groin. She will love the feeling of your chest pressed against her back and your arms wrapped around her. This position is also amazingly comfortable and you can heighten her orgasmic potential by caressing her breasts and clitoris while you are thrusting her.

62 Good old-fashioned love, affection and attention ticks the boxes

Men are visually stimulated; women are not. Men can reach a climax within 2 minutes; women need at least a good 15 minutes on average. Women need good old-fashioned love, affection and attention to detail. This means the way you touch her, the way you seduce her verbally, the mood you bring into the lovemaking, all play vital roles in giving a woman incredible sex.

63 Connect on an emotional level

For men, sex is a physical thing. For women, emotions carry huge weight. This means you should never grope her right away. Value how she feels and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level. This will make her sexually attracted to you. And when you give her an amazing time in bed, you will be rewarded with much more from her as well as being able to give her mind-blowing sex.

64 Imitating in public places

Send her erotic temperatures soaring through the roof by imitating “thrusting” movements against her with your clothes on. Here’s the trick: do this in a public place, such as a movie theatre or a club. The trick is in performing this erotic act where both of you cannot lead to full intercourse. This way, both of you will be ultra-hot for sex and you can make her come around in a hurry when you get home
later or in this case, sooner!

65 Make her feel appreciated

Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated. When you kiss her, look into her eyes and run your fingers down the back of her spine. Spend quality time on slow, tantalising foreplay. When you penetrate
her, acknowledge her presence and ask if that feels great for her. Above all, be a man and focus on her needs exclusively first. You will emerge a far better lover.

66 Tongue her all over

When it comes to oral sex, use your tongue and mouth to explore her entire body. A woman’s body is incredibly blessed with many erogenous areas. Start with these areas first, and when she is
sufficiently aroused and stimulated, move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity, and see what gives her the most pleasure.

67 Mimic her

Observe what she does when she stimulates herself (a great majority of women can reach an orgasm through masturbation alone). Mimic the motions, the angles, the intensity she use on herself. Then replicate these movements on her.

68 Stimulate her G-spot

Lick around her vagina, from her clitoris right down to her perineum (the diamond-shaped area between her vagina and anus). When she is sufficiently lubricated, insert two fingers – palm facing up – about 2 to 3 inches into her vagina to locate and stimulate her G-spot. Continue to arouse her with your tongue focused on her clitoris. You will soon prime her for very powerful clitoral-cum-G-spot orgasms.

69 Make some noise

For some women, screaming during sex is what actually causes them to come to an orgasm. It’s not so much the act of screaming that that causes her to climax. It is the act of letting herself go, the act of totally relaxing her mind and body, the act of totally losing her inhibitions, that leads her to a sexual ecstasy like no other. So encourage her to make some noise in bed!

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So there you have 69 tried-and-tested tips to send a woman into orgasmic ecstasy and ways to spice up your sex life and give your wife or lover amazing sex that will blow her mind. For starters, pick a few of those tips that you like, and put them to action tonight. You will see (and feel) something sensational when you do!

how to satisfy a woman sexually in bedThe key to sensational sex is to simply learn about your partner’s sexual landscape, understanding how her body works and making her melt with passion. Make time to learn new things to do with each other in bed. She will be sexually and emotionally fulfilled, relaxing her mind and body, the act of totally losing her inhibitions, that leads her to a sexual ecstasy like no other. So encourage her to make some noise in bed!

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Male Chastity

Male Chastity: A Wife’s Perspective

Male chastity and strict orgasm control puts a couples sex life and relationship on virtual steroids

male desAll men, given the ability, masturbate and way more often than most women think they do. This is something that is difficult for him to control and even more difficult to part with.

Young men have an abundance of testosterone so masturbation doesn’t seem to interfere with their pursuit of young women. And as men grow older masturbating usually translates into the husband ignoring his wife for at least a couple days.

Chastity puts a stop to the masturbation and works in many ways. It changes his mood, demeanor and libido. Most importantly it changes his desire to please you.

Getting him to adore you again

cunnilingusIt is not the goal for him to do the cooking or the cleaning or the laundry but you will find that it will happen, not routinely but it will happen because as he continues to build up his sexual energy that he no longer has the ability to release as he pleases he will divert that energy towards pleasing you.

You being the source of his sexual pleasure will change his feelings. He will adore you and treat you in a way you desire. He will be eager to please you because you are the source of his release. He will find, over time, he is happier and that will be because you’re happier. He will love the emotional boost the two of you share.

How to introduce chastity requires the correct plan. One that would work for my husband, was the most detailed part of the research process. By taking the advice of many other women, I was able to put a well informed plan together that I was confident that would be successful.

I followed this plan from day one and still, do to this day. I have found it works. At least a dozen other ladies have also utilized variations on this plan successfully.

We must always remember that sexually we are always in command and that first and foremost we will always be sexually satisfied.

face sittingThis is the cornerstone to happiness for both you and him. Keeping you sexually satisfied is your husband’s job. My husband does so anywhere and anytime I say and by any means that I demand. Not being able to experience the pleasure of an orgasm only means that I experience many more than ever before.

You may think that this works only to your advantage and that is a common misconception. It is just as advantageous for him. He must keep you satisfied to eventually get his release and every time he satisfies you he is happy because he has made you happy.

It is important to instill to him that his primary means of sexual gratification will be through your sexual satisfaction. Eventually every time you experience an orgasm he will have a sense of sexual satisfaction.

How you will accomplish this I will explain in a moment. What could be better, you being pleasured any way you like and experiencing wonderful sensations. He can not have an orgasm but he feels satisfied because you are and he will maintain a high libido. (Although you’re still equals outside of the home you are the queen of the bedroom and he is your slave.)

Initial enforcement of chastity period

cock cageIt is almost universally held by women who seriously practice chastity for their man that initial enforcement of chastity should be at least 3 months of continuous wear without relief after you go through the break-in period of getting a device that fits. Preventing him from having an orgasm for three month period may seem a bit harsh but it is paramount to your success as it allows his body and mind to adjust to the lack of masturbation and sexual pleasure as desired. Enforcing the first 3 month period will allow him to get in to the proper frame of mind and make him understand your desire and your commitment and your determination to his being chaste. It will also give you the chance to develop the strength to say “no”. He should be made aware of the time frame immediately upon his being secured in his device. This allows for a clear understanding of the initial commitment of time.

pleasing the wifeAfter 3 months of being locked up your man would be willing to do almost anything for a release. In that sense the chastity device will have done its job physically but mentally some men can hold out for 3 months and bounce back to their old ways once you let them cum. They then expect future orgasms on a regular basis! In determining the length of the initial period, you need to consider this.

A chastity lifestyle will be very hard on him initially and 3 months without release but it will make your seriousness very clear to him. You will have put an end to his days of masturbating behind your back. His life will never be the same after. Rather than pleasuring himself when he wants, he will become dedicated to pleasuring you when you want it and how you want it.

You will need to be strong and keep up your end of the bargain. When you can do this it will have change the dynamic of your relationship in a way that set you and him on the path to long term happiness.

Post-confinement release ecstasy

relief for husbandUpon completing his initial confinement period I assure you that you can give him an experience like he has never had before . This is a reward for both of you. You will have a sense of strength for enforcing it and him for getting through it.

You should make his orgasm a slow drawn out one with lots of teasing. It will be all too easy for him to cum very quickly. You may need to tie him down to keep him on edge but when you finally do let him cum it will be almost too much for his body to handle.

Once you allow him his first release it is entirely up to you how many sexual experiences you allow, how they occur and how the ejaculate is disposed. A very important step during any release period is to ensure that you will get him right back into his device.

Physical restriction may be necessary

Some of the women manage this by always tying him down before the device is removed. While this has its old school charms, there are lots of other options. Locking his hands behind his back in a pair of steel handcuffs is a quick way to keep him from grabbing his penis if you are teasing him. I also have a waist belt with a pair of leather cuffs attached which is easy and fun to use. You can get something similar for cuffing his hands to his thighs.

A wonderful device called a humbler works well if you want him to have use of his hands to pleasure you. If all you are doing is inspecting his cock and making sure the device is cleaned then I just put the handcuffs on one of his wrists or ankles prior to removing his device. Before the cuff comes off he has to be secured back in his chastity tube. I am confident that he would not be willing to go to work with the dangling cuff. Several of the other women have tried this trick and found it works well.

The less that you have to worry about his arguing that the device doesn’t have to immediately go back on the more likely you are to take it off frequently which promotes both teasing and keeping the tube and his penis clean.

Frequency of allowed orgasms

There were a number of different views about how often a man should be allowed to cum after the initial denial period. Some of the women with younger males let theirs have an orgasm about once a week. I suspect that they were masturbating a couple times a day before this so that once a week is a big reduction. Most of the women I talked to though thought that it was best to strike a balance between keeping them completely denied and giving them some hope of gaining a release. You will need to experiment and ultimately you will need to do what works best for you, recognizing that the less often for him the better.

lick my pussy nowThe most common belief was that it was not good to allow their male to achieve an orgasm more than once per month but most thought that his orgasm should not very often be withheld for more than 3 months unless there was a good reason for doing so.

Some women liked to think about how often their man could have an orgasm as a small fraction of the number of orgasms they had. A 50-1 ratio seems to be very popular but you can pick the number to suit your needs and gets the time between releases just about right. This approach gives him a strong incentive to initiate sex and give you orgasms.

Some women like to set goals for their husbands where they are allowed an orgasm earlier than scheduled if they meet a big goal. Men who had cheated with other women rather than by being chronic masturbaters deserve harsher treatment.

When you need penetration …

There may be times where you feel you have to unlock him to use his cock. Fortunately, there is a way to do this without letting him orgasm by using numbing creme and a several condoms. This usually works but there is always a small risk that he will cum especially if he has been locked for a long time. There are other alternatives that allow penetration without this risk.

You can avoid disappointment if you stimulate him to orgasm in some way other than intercourse when you first let him out of the tube. After he cums give him a Viagra and wait an hour or so before you use him for up. It is good for about 3 hours or you can give him a Cialis if you want to do an all day thing.

Once he has cum the first time and recovered by the time the erection drug takes effect, he will not orgasm nearly as easily and either of the two drugs will get and keep him really hard even if he has another orgasm.

Some of the women use their men for intercourse for several days in a row treating the whole event as a single release period before they lock him back up for a prolonged duration. The big changes that you must make in yourself to make a chastity relationship work is to commit to frequently teasing him, like you no doubt did when you first dated, and to having much more frequent sex yourself. The two can be one and the same thing.

Cunnilingus galore

trained to eat pussyHaving him perform cunnilingus on you while locked up is almost guaranteed to drive to the edge. Fortunately, for you the chastity device will keep him from going over.

Just think the more sex you get without letting him cum the more he wants you.

If more women knew this secret there would be a lot more locked up husbands and boyfriends.

Remember you have all the time in the world to train him to do the way you want without any need to worry about getting him off.

Once locked all he does is fantasize about you. You will need to decide if you want to be the one that initiates sex or whether you want him to.

Training your man

My usual rule with my man is that I will tell him when and how I want to be pleasured and he is expected to drop everything when this happens.

This is clearly a control issue for me but your tastes may differ.

One of my friends likes to have her husband instigate elaborate romantic seduction rituals. She never unlocks him during these events but on the rare occasion when he really outdoes himself, she allows him an orgasm the next day.

The bliss point is when you get your man to the place he gets pleasure purely from your pleasure without thinking about his cock. (My husband is not quite there yet but he is getting there.)


There are almost an infinite number of ways that you can tease him.

stradling his faceThere is the classic tie him down to the bed, take off the tube and work over his cock for hours. Every time you feel him close to an orgasm stop and straddle his face and have one or more yourself. Stay with it as long as you can and you will leave him a marshmallow.

You may find that you have to ice down is penis to get back in the tube. Dress up in the way that drives him crazy and stand him at attention nude in his chastity tube while you softly stroke him all over but ignore his cock. He will struggle to stand tall as his cock struggles to grow in the chastity tube.

Every woman needs to develop her own style. You can keep things fresh by continuing to experiment. It may seem like a lot of work but he will shower you with attention. The hardest thing will be getting that much attention again.

Keeping him in the game

keeping her pleasedIt is understandable that there may be days that you want to ignore his situation. It is alright to not care that all the time that he is not no longer in control of his manhood and you can let him know that you don’t. Still you should not let this go more than a few days without making positive comments about his being locked up for you.

The main thing if you are going to lock him up is that you need to make a commitment to yourself and him to make this work. As the endeavor in to chastity continues you will be able to add ideas and musings to your relationship that you find works well. Remember the basic principles of how to keep your man under your spell. It will let both of you discover chastity’s amazing rewards.

Always maintain the upper hand to show both you and him that your requests are nothing less than a requirement for him. You will never want to let things revert back to his lack of self-control again. Believe me, the routine is effective and over the long term you’ll not regret it even though at times it seems like a lot of work.

There is an old saying among those wives who adopted a chastity lifestyle because their husbands encouraged them – be careful what you wish for. I think some of the husbands, given a choice, would go back to their old ways, but none of the wives would.

I think that deep down the men are happier because they wanted to be sexually controlled by their wives and now they are. Their new reality is often much different than their original fantasy because it is now your fantasy not his. I know the wives, who stuck it out through the trials and tribulations of finding a chastity device that worked and then figuring out how change their mindset from a need to give him orgasms to one of deserving all the orgasms they could ever want. We are all much happier.

A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle

​You are having an affair? Fall in love to your lover maybe? Daydreaming of him all the time? Constantly wet? Your husband gets hard when you tell him something about those things? And he wants you even more? You want to have them both in your life and don’t want to get divorced?

Then Hotwife lifestyle is solution for you then.

So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other man. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are.

If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny.

Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet.

Take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them.

If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever.

A Hotwife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement.

The wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her!

Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine.

In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife.

Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities.

In fact, his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before.

First, go slowly.

Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you.

If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! (When I say anything – I mean anything). And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you. He will get his sexual satisfaction from your encounters with other man, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage!

As you begin, you must remember one very important fact. Hotwifing is not just about sex. It’s also about control. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that.

Hotwifing is about what you want. Your sexual pleasure. Your sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you will enjoy it immensely! Think You not him. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him.

Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hotwife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.)

Remember rule #1 – The goal is for you to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it?

First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning.

If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of You being satisfied.

Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman.

Do not let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this – no choice and no voice.

He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another man’s home, or bring a man into your bedroom (I know you want to try this – it turns you on).

He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, you will love it once it happens, and he will too (even if he doesn’t know why).

When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter.

Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.”

Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”.

That’s it. You have to share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event.

Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night.

It’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples and also your wild-card for your freedom. Share all of the details while he has an erection.

But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on your needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now.

Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!).

Absolutely the best way to tell him all things above is when you have sex with him (with intercourse or without). In the moment of coming he knows that your demand of having sex with another man in unavoidable.

It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him up-to-date of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved.

This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have any sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend even though it is most likely that this will never occur, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you both.

When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine or a new lingerie.

Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc.

Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Let he jerks off besides you while you whisper what you will do that night to your lover. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together.

Here’s another tip: Treat your lover like you treated your husband when you were dating.

Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out!

Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible.

Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight!

When he’s done, continue to pamper him exactly as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door.

After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet.

The next step is very important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hotwife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn all your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hotwife games you played earlier and become all his again!

Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even more for allowing you this night of pleasure!

Depending on the couple, you may or may not have intercourse right away but you have to have some kind of sexual interaction with your husband.

In the beginning try to have intercourse even if you are not in the mood. In later stages you can just give him blowjob or jerk him off while you tell him dirty details.

I personally perform some of above and clean up duty.

This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be extremely arousing for both involved!

It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own.

Your husband usually wants you to order him to perform clean up duty. He cannot explain himself that he allows you to have sex with your lover but if you tie his hands and order him to clean you he doesn’t have choice. Right?

This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hotwife lifestyle.

My biggest turn on is to come back in a sweat lingerie with few drops of my lovers cum both on my breasts and in my vagina. Sometimes I sit on him and sometimes I just jerk him off. It turns me on when I tie him down while he is desperate and horny.

Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever.

Most importantly, remind him that you love the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle.

Tell him how much you enjoyed that night.

Tease him while replaying the night over and over.

Tell him you can’t wait to do it again.

Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you.

After few months you will be bored of having sex with your husband all the time, especially if he is not good in bed like your lover.

That is very delicate part of being a hotwife. In his head everything is about sex.

Even though you love him completely (OK, you love your lover a little bit – aren’t you?), that’s not enough for him. He has to have a kind of sexual interaction with you more or less every single day.

Sounds tough right? It is. Sometimes it makes me crazy and I hate him for not being perceptive for me and my body.

But if you think that is a small price you have to pay for you pleasure and for your marriage (you don’t want to divorce – don’t you?).

So don’t avoid those situations when he wants sex. If you are not in the mood just tell him to jerk off while you tell him some dirty details from your last date or, even better, tell he what you will do next time with your lover.

If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together.

In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you having sex with someone else, as crazy as that might sound.

And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience.

Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you both stay sexually fulfilled.

There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored.

If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing.

To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive.

Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now.

So get out there and get started!

Get a Woman Hot for you

How to get a woman hot

get woman hotThere’s no doubt that being a smooth talker is an extremely effective way to charm women and get a woman hot for you.

However, it’s not the only thing that helps.

Knowing when and how to respectfully initiate physical contact with women can psychologically help them develop emotional and physical interest in you.

And by touching a few completely innocent places on her body you could spark a subconscious reaction that makes her feel an instantly powerful rapport with you – without saying a word.

The kind that, in the right circumstances, could easily build to something more.

Find out the best way to break the touch barrier with a woman in the link below.

Touching a woman here could trigger her most primal attraction

In all likelihood, you use touch to build rapport on a regular basis already.

We do it on non-romantic occasions like hugging a family member, or shaking a work colleague’s hand.

These seemingly innocuous gestures aren’t just for being polite.

Physical contact sets off a psychological trigger in our brain that tells us this person isn’t a threat and make us much more comfortable in their presence, and vice versa.

This simple evolutionary trait has helped humans build relationships for millions of years.

Let’s be honest, when it comes to attractive women, most men hope for a somewhat different reaction when they break the touch barrier.

But even in those situations, respectful touch activates the same psychological trigger of making the woman comfortable in their presence.

Ignite her interest to develop the interaction further

Don’t take my word for it – just check out this surprising study I read recently.

It explored what happened when men asked women to dance in a nightclub.

And the woman they surveyed were far more likely to agree to the man’s request if he touched her on the arm for 1-2 seconds beforehand.

But that’s by no means the most effective way for a man to break the touch barrier.

There’s several other completely innocent body parts that, when a man touches them (as part of normal social interaction) can trigger a chain reaction in her brain that switches up her initial rapport into genuine attraction and desire.

Almost instantly.

Follow the link below to discover the parts in question:

How to break the touch barrier with an attractive woman (and spark her desire back)

Make a Woman Orgasm Hard

Make a woman orgasm hard

make a woman orgasm hardIf you want to make a woman orgasm hard, forget fingering techniques, forget oral sex, forget sex toys. Discover the secret to giving your lover intense orgasms during full blown intercourse from the experts.

Don’t be like Dave. His relationship with his wife of 13 years was not in a good spot. It was pretty much sexless.

Dave couldn’t understand why his wife was ‘never in the mood’. Dave always gave his wife oral and a clitoral orgasm before intercourse whenever they did have sex.

Long story short. Clitoral orgasms aren’t enough to truly satisfy a woman. There is a more simple technique to give a woman multiple orgasms during intercourse.

Dave was skeptical. He did not have a massive cock. He had never given her an orgasm during intercourse in 13 years.

Here’s what I’m really excited about and the reason I’m writing this post: If you want to make a woman orgasm hard and make her want to fulfill all your desires, check out the video below.

Make a woman orgasm hard by activating female sexual desire

It may seem too good to be true. But you can produce a dramatic breakthrough in triggering deep sexual desire in women.

Let me ask you. Have you ever been with a woman and it’s clear there’s no sexual energy?

The kind of experience where you know if you even tried something sexual you’d get rapidly rejected?

You can substantially reduce the chances of this happening to you again.

Get an edge to help you attract more beautiful women. Make a woman orgasm hard every time you get her into the sack.

To discover exactly how you can use this to more easily trigger sexual desire in women, watch the video below.

Fundamentally it’s a biological reaction that takes place in the brain. It’s only from there that she starts thinking sexual thoughts and acting on them.

How to make a woman orgasm hard in different ways

If you’re currently relying on only one or two different orgasm types to satisfy your woman you are making a big mistake. Discover many different types of orgasm you can start giving your lover.

Let me ask you a question – Are you unhappy with the amount of sex your getting?

Are you frustrated that your lover doesn’t yell and scream your name out loud every time you make love?

stay hard in bed pillsDo you ever wish your lover beg you for sex, instead of having to chase her for it?

Do you ever dream of having the power to make a woman orgasm hard? Or give her so much pleasure that her body shakes with ecstasy and becomes physically addicted to having sex with you?

If you answered yes to any of these questions then it’s likely you’re stuck in a very linear way of thinking when it orgasms to satisfying women in bed.

Now I’m not pointing any fingers. For a long time I was the same.

Who would ever have thought there were so many different types of female orgasms? It’s not exactly the kind of thing we’re taught in school now, is it?

But the truth is that there are many different types of orgasm you can give a woman. There’s are many different ways to make a woman orgasm hard.

And if you’re not utilizing them, this could be the reason why your lover isn’t jumping all over you, begging to have sex night after night.

To ensure the next time you have sex truly blows her mind use the techniques necessary to give her these different types of orgasm.

You won’t believe how she responds when you start giving her body this type of stimulation.

Get full details on the different types of orgasm below.

How To Create A Date That Leads To Sex

Have you ever wanted to turn a date into an exciting, fun and passionate sexual experience in the bedroom. But then struggled to figure out all the actual ways of making it happen?

Or how to naturally transition a seemingly platonic, average or uneventful date into a wild passionate sex-filled experience? The truth is that most guys struggle with this.

Most guys would love to turn their dates into nights of exciting and engrossing love-making.

But few know how to pull it off. And honestly, this is one of those things you need to do just right.

Take a wrong step in the process and you can fall flat on your face, get rejected or just end up watching a movie on the couch with no sexual electricity to be felt whatsoever.

But if you get it right you’ll know one the biggest secrets to triggering intense sexual desire in a woman.

Check out the video below to discover how to make it happen.

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Increase female libido

How to increase your wife / girlfriend’s libido

increase female libidoIf you want to increase your wife’s desire for you, take heart.

With the right specific trigger words and phrases, any man can increase female libido and  ignite powerful sexual desire in your wife or girlfriend.

Maybe you’ve been happily married for decades, or you’re only on your second date. Either way, these methods get a woman in the mood quickly and easily work.

Listen to the video below for the techniques that could have her begging for sex.

If you’re like most couples, the early days of your relationship were probably wild. You could barely keep your hands off each other for night after night of passionate sex.

But nowadays, it’s always a different excuse for why she doesn’t want sex. She’s too tired, she’s in a bad mood, it was a long day at work, and so on.

It’s a tough situation to be in. But here’s the crucial bit:

If her libido’s currently low – it can still go back up again

By understanding a bit about female psychology, you’ll realise that, subconsciously, she probably still loves sex.

Over time, her rational brain starts suppressing these feelings. But it’s possible to help her express them again – by using the right language.

No matter how long she hasn’t been interested.

Each woman has specific trigger words that increase female libido and set off her attraction without engaging her rational brain.

For instance, if you’ve tried talking about how good the sex would feel.

Tell her instead how good she would make you feel – specifically using “you”.

Describing sex in general describes an act – something she has to do.

female libido boosterThis might set off the rational objection that it’s too much effort after a long day.

But talking about her bypasses this – as it feels more like a shared experience of passion.

She’ll subconsciously feel appreciated that you enjoy the pleasure she alone gives you.

And this can flick the switch in her mind that activates her inner sexual beast.

Leaving her desperate to satisfy you sexually.

That’s just one way language can help bypass her rational brain.

For the phrases that can unleash a raw sexual side to her you never knew existed, listen to the video below.

You don’t need to be an experienced seduction guru for these words to work.

Any man can strategically use these words at just the right moment to activate seriously powerful arousal in women.

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How to make a woman want you more sexually

Make her want you more sexually

how to make a woman want youSince you asked how to make a woman want you more sexually I want to reveal to you a very powerful foreplay technique.

You can use this technique in multiple ways to make a woman want you more sexually.

It can turn your disinterested wife, girlfriend or casual lover  into a sex-craved kitten desperate for cock. you can use it to turn your lover from being mildly aroused to begging for you to put it in.

To understand this concept first appreciate how it feels when someone does this technique to you.

Tease her

So let me ask you a question – Have you ever been cock teased? In other words, have you ever been in bed with a woman and she’s acted like you were going to have sex, but it never actually happened?

Have you ever had it when she does everything to indicate that you’re going to get some kind of sexual pleasure, but then it never happens?

If you have, then think back to that time now. If you haven’t, then imagine as if a woman did do this – and play along as we work through this example.

The way a woman will typically do this is she’ll begin touching and feeling different parts of your body. She’ll normally start with the less sensitive parts. Like the arms, chest, stomach, back or legs. She’ll gradually hint as if she’s going to move her hands to your more sensitive area.

She may move her hands towards and gesture as if she was going to grab your penis. But then she’ll pull back and go back to stimulating other parts of you.

Now I have a question for you:

How does it make you feel when it seems like she’s about to grab your penis?

If you’re like most men, it’ll drive you wild with excitement. You know how much pleasure you’re about to get. It would be even more pleasurable for you if she makes you wait before she grabbed your crotch.

Teasing works for her too

Well, women feel the same away. Actually, women experience this 10x the way us men do. If you think you get more excited when you get teased, women experience this at 10x the intensity.

When you tease a woman in a powerful way like this it really does drive them wild.  It gives them passion, excitement and arousal.  It makes a woman want you more sexually.

Integrate teasing like this into every aspect of your foreplay. Right up until the point at which you finally enter her.  It’s then not uncommon to have her beg you or physically grab you and insert you into her.

This process can be that powerful when done right. I highly recommend you start using it. It’s how to make a woman want you more sexually.

Now, I’ve really only scratched the surface as to how to use methods like this to stimulate women in a way that makes them desperate for sex.

When it comes to sex, women are very much stimulation-response creatures. In other words, if you perform a certain action you’ll get a predictable response. But in order to get the kind of responses like intense multiple orgasms you need to know the precise stimulations to trigger them.

Discover those triggers here:

make a woman have powerful orgasms
make a woman want you for sexYou’ve probably heard of a type of Viagra for women but really this is the lazy way to drive her wild and begging for sex.

With the techniques in the video and associated lessons you can learn how to make a woman want you more sexually with using any kind of female Viagra at all.

Make a girl go crazy over you

How to make a girl go crazy over you

make a girl go crazy over youIf you want to discover the tricks to make a girl go crazy over you, to think about you all the time, and want to jump in bed with you every chance she gets, read on.

Now you’ve probably heard the cliché about women loving bad boys.

Technically, it’s true. But it doesn’t mean treating women arrogantly or rudely.

Bad boys are great at using flirting to build attraction and it’s a skill you too can master.

Now you can discover how becoming a great flirt could transform your sex life.

Lots of men don’t understand what a bad boy actually is. They think it means being more aggressive and arrogant towards women to spark their attraction.

Of course, most women just find this incredibly disrespectful and rude.

Remember this: “bad” doesn’t mean what most people think it means.

It’s more accurate to describe bad boys as mischievous, cocky or cheeky.

Here’s why:

They’re good at playfully building sexual tension with women, and are just generally fun to be around.

And one of the most effective ways they do that is with flirting.

I know that flirting can feel awkward the first few times you try it.

But it’s fairly easy to naturally mix it into your normal conversation and it can make your interactions with women more entertaining and enjoyable – for both you and them.

Here’s an example.

Suppose you’re speaking to a beautiful woman, and she tells you she’s a teacher.

Jokingly say something like what a shame, I could never be with someone that intelligent.

Not only is this a decent self-deprecating joke (if I say so myself), it’s one of the oldest reverse-psychological tricks in the book.

By implying that nothing could ever happen sexually you’ve planted the idea of a sexual relationship in her head.

And, ironically, she starts to dwell on the idea of sex with you more and more and finds it increasingly appealing. These techniques can really make a girl fall for you.

Obviously, this won’t always happen. It doesn’t guarantee attraction.

But you’ve at least made her consider you in a more sexual context.

And, once you’ve established that initial friendly rapport, that’s when genuine attraction can start to develop.

But flirting isn’t the only way to get women seeing you as a sexual being.

Warch the below to discover more advanced conversational techniques for building instant rapport and deeper, primal lust in women.

A sure way to make a girl go crazy over you – if that is what you want. This will not just trigger a girl to want you – it will trigger her to want sex from you, hot sex, and often. Can you handle that?

So using these techniques will make a girl think of you all the time. Even obssess over you. If you can handle that, click on the picture below to see the video and find out how.

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How to Get Your Girlfriend to Want Sex

Get her to want more sex

get your girlfriend to want sexIf you feel like you’re stuck in a relationship where the sex has dried up – it’s time to do something radical to get your girlfriend to want sex again.

Sometimes if you’ve been with your partner for a long time things can become routine.

Perhaps you go to bed at different times. Or perhaps whenever you get to bed together you’re both exhausted. Maybe the situation with your kids makes having sex very challenging. Or perhaps sex just seems like something you don’t do any more.

If you can relate to any of the above or things have in any way become routine the best way to change things is to be radical.

Small changes lead to big changes

Instead of trying to make small changes here and there you need to do something huge.

You need to smash your current patterns to pieces if you’re serious about getting regular sex back. Now this may sound intimidating or challenging. But all the sex that’ll come from it will be well worth it.

So, with that said, what kind of radical change can you make? Well to get a lot more sex it all comes down to behaviour. If you want to see a huge change in results (i.e. a lot more sex) then you need to make a huge change in behaviour.

If right now you do very little to arouse your partner, then you need to start doing a lot.

And if you do very little to surprise your partner, then you need to start doing a lot.

If right now you don’t do things like:

  • give her massages,
  • light scented candles,
  • run her aromatic baths,
  • play romantic music,
  • cook or take her out for her favorite dinner,

then you need to start doing this stuff (a lot) to get your girlfriend to want sex again.

See, the key here is to take the focus from blaming her and put it on actions you can take..

Sure, it may be true that she is the one who isn’t keen for sex at the moment, but in order to make her want sex from you look at what you can do to get her to want it.

Get your girlfriend to want sex

And you’ve got to completely break your current sex-less routine by becoming a radically different person.

Give to your girlfriend like you’ve never given to her before and do so without expecting anything in return.

If you start giving to her while constantly expecting reward or recognition you will fail. If the changes you start to make really are radical she will likely challenge you and your new changes.

She will test you to know if these changes are real or if you’re doing just them to try and get something.

If you fail these tests by reacting to her or getting frustrated by the lack of recognition you won’t get the new sex life you’re looking for.

However, remain patient. Trust that she’ll eventually welcome the changes. She will eventually welcome them and it will make her horny and get her very hot for you.

90 day challenge

Now the best way to do this is to set yourself a 90 day challenge.

For the next 90 days give everything you have to your girlfriend. Fulfill all of her needs beyond levels you ever have before. Do stuff that previously you weren’t willing to do. And do so without expecting anything in return.

Do so because you love your girlfriend and enjoy giving to her . Trust that as a result she’ll eventually open up and want to return it.

It’s a big challenge, but it’s a life changing one and one that will also lead to a whole lot more sex.

And if you’d like to learn more details about how to most effectively complete a challenge like this.

Or you’d like to discover other strategies to get your girlfriend to want more sex, then check out the video of mine below.

Watch the whole video to learn these advanced techniques to make a girlfriend want sex like she never has before.

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