How to Get Hard and Stay Hard in Bed

how to get hard and stay hard in bedIf you’ve experienced that awkward moment when you’ve been having some great foreplay with a woman, but then suddenly when it comes to sex you realize you
can’t get hard… you know how much that situation sucks.

It’s frustrating as hell to want sex, have a woman ready for sex and then to not be able to actually have sex.

To avoid this situation in the future listen up…

There’s something you have to know about what’s going on here.

The truth is that there’s a reason why you’re failing to get hard at those important moments in time.

Because think about it… if you can get hard when you’re masturbating or when watching a porn movie and there’s no pressure to get hard… then it’s clearly not something physical that’s holding you back from getting hard.

It’s got to be something going on in your head.

If it wasn’t just in your head then you wouldn’t be able to get hard when there was no pressure.

Therefore, while there are physical tricks to getting hard, today I want to address a very important concept as to why this situation happens to guys.

The concept is… emotional state.

At any point in time we live in a certain emotional state.

Sometimes we experience a confident state, sometimes we experience a sad state, sometimes we experience a connected state, sometimes we experience a nervous
state… and so on and so on.

An emotional state is a way of describing the experience of an emotion at any point in time.

Even if you feel like you’re “emotionless” you’re still in an emotional state, it’s probably just a state of calm or restfulness.

Anyway, the reason this concept is important is because your emotional state directly affects your ability to get hard.

In fact, it’s a negative emotional state that causes you to fail to get hard when you really want to.

Think about it…

If there’s no physical difference between your ability to get hard when you’re alone and your inability to get hard when you’re about to have sex… it must therefore be your emotional state that’s stopping you from getting hard.

And if you do have difficulty getting hard for sex, but not when you’re alone, I flat out guarantee  you that it’s because you experience a different emotional state during

Therefore if you want to be able to get and stay hard during sex you need to change the habitual emotional state you experience during sex.

Chances are that right now you experience nervousness or at the minimum some kind of anticipation of a negative event or some kind of judgement.

If you want to get hard this must change.

And changing doesn’t have to be some big and complex experience.

You don’t need an intervention or to go on a 5 month retreat in the Himalayas.

All you need to do is decide that from now on during sex you’ll experience an empowered state instead of a weak one.

Decide to be confident during sex instead of fearful.

Expect success instead of expecting failure.

Do this and you’ll be able to get and stay rock-hard during sex.

And if you’d like to learn some specific strategies for how to make this change, then check out this free video …

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PS – The ability to get and stay hard really is not rocket-science and neither does it require a special pill.

If you’ve been able to get hard naturally at any point in the last 6 months then you have ability to recreate that hardness as soon as you figure out how to trigger it.

P.P.S. These techniques I teach work for virtually all men but in some and only the lazy will prefer to buy cheap Viagra on-line so as to avoid doing the mental and emotional work 😉

If you’re feeling lazy, you can get cheap sex pills at – best place to shop for meds on-line – how do I know? That’s where I go 🙂 .