how to get hard fast and stay hard
A lot of guys come to me and complain about struggling to get or stay hard during sex and want to learn how to get hard fast and stay hard.
Sometimes it’s that they can’t get it up. Sometimes it’s that they can’t keep it up. Sometimes it’s that they can’t get fully hard.
Sometimes it’s that they’re frustrated that they’re not the same down there as they used to be.
And so today I want to share with you a trick to get hard fast and stay hard.
And to do that you need to understand how the getting hard process works…
Getting hard involves the following 4 step process…
- External stimuli
- Stimuli processed in the mind
- Chemical message (hormones) sent in body to get hard
- Blood is stored “down there” at high pressure to create hardness
Now all of these steps depend on the previous step. If any one of these steps fails then the entire process fails. This means that every step needs to run flawlessly.
Now some of these steps you have no direct control over so there’s nothing you can do about them.
In particular you have no direct control over external stimuli (although you can influence this), no natural direct control over chemical messages sent and no control over the blood storage process.
The one thing you do have control over is how the stimuli is processed in your head. In other words – you have control over how you respond to what happens in your external world. And this is where I believe most of the time the problem lies with men who can’t get hard.
Most men struggle to get and stay hard because of how they process the external event, such as being in bed with a woman they find attractive. How you interpret this event has a dramatic impact on your ability to get hard.
If in the last 3 months you’ve gotten hard naturally in any situation, whether that be while masturbating, watching porn, first thing in the morning or any other time, then that demonstrates you have the physical capability to get hard at any point in time.
Therefore if you can’t get hard when you want to – such as when in bed with your lover, then it must be down to step 2 in the process above – which is how you process being in that situation.
See if when in a sexual situation with a woman you get nervous, worry about things going wrong or visualize yourself failing to get hard this causes mixed chemical messages to be sent through your body (an example of one such chemical is as adrenaline).
And chemical messages like this interrupt the positive chemical messages telling you to get hard, meaning effectively that the message doesn’t get delivered “down there” telling you to get hard.
This is the real reason why many men fail to get or stay hard in bed. Fortunately this is a solvable problem. To solve this problem all you need to do is fix how you process these events.
Do this and the correct messages will be sent to your body telling it to get hard and you’ll be amazed at your new found ability to get hard. The video (links below) walks through exactly how this works – how to change how you process external events and how to trigger yourself to get hard whenever you want.
PS – I see too many guys resorting to expensive meds to solve E.D. problems. Okay it works, but if you want to go down the road of pills then why not get cheap generic ED pills that work exactly the same way. But if you don’t want to go down that road remember there’s a 100% natural solution to getting and staying rock-hard. Learn how to get hard fast and stay hard. Watch the video 🙂 .