How to Get Your Girlfriend to Want Sex

get your girlfriend to want sexIf you feel like you’re stuck in a relationship where the sex has dried up – it’s time to do something radical to get your girlfriend to want sex again.

Sometimes if you’ve been with your partner for a long time things can become routine.

Perhaps you go to bed at different times, perhaps whenever you get to bed together you’re both exhausted, perhaps the situation with your kids makes having sex very challenging
or perhaps sex just seems like something you don’t do any more.

If you can relate to any of the above or things have in any way become routine the best way to change things is to be radical.

Instead of trying to make small changes here and there you need to do something huge.

You need to smash your current patterns to pieces if you’re serious about getting regular sex back. Now this may sound intimidating or challenging, but all the sex that’ll come from it will be well worth it.

So, with that said, what kind of radical change can you make? Well to get a lot more sex it all comes down to behaviour. If you want to see a huge change in results (i.e. a lot
more sex) then you need to make a huge change in behaviour.

If right now you do very little to arouse your partner, then you need to start doing a lot.

If right now you do very little to surprise your partner, then you need to start doing a lot.

If right now you don’t do things like give her massages, light scented candles, run her aromatic baths, play romantic music, cook or take her out for her favorite dinner, then you need to start doing this stuff… a lot – to get your girlfriend to want sex again.

See, the key here is to take the focus from blaming her and put it on actions you can take..

Sure, it may be true that she is the one who isn’t keen for sex at the moment, but in order to get that sex you’ve got to look at what YOU can do to get her to want it.

You’ve got to take responsibility to get your girlfriend to want sex.

And you’ve got to completely break your current sex-less routine by becoming a radically different person.

Give to your girlfriend like you’ve never given to her before and do so without expecting anything in return.

If you start giving to her while constantly expecting reward or recognition you will fail. If the changes you start to make really are radical she will likely challenge you and your new changes.

She will test you to know if these changes are real or if you’re doing just them to try and get something.

If you fail these tests by reacting to her or getting frustrated by the lack of recognition you won’t get the new sex life you’re looking for.

If, however, you remain patient and trust that she’ll eventually welcome the changes… She will eventually welcome them and with it she’ll want a lot more sex too.

Now the best way to do this is to set yourself a 90 day challenge.

For the next 90 days give everything you have to your girlfriend and fulfilling all of her needs beyond levels you ever have before. Do stuff that previously you weren’t willing to do. And do so without expecting anything in return.

Do so because you love your girlfriend and enjoy giving to her and you trust that as a result she’ll eventually open up and want to return it.

It’s a big challenge, but it’s a life changing one and one that will also lead to a whole lot more sex 🙂

And if you’d like to learn more details about how to most effectively complete a challenge like this…

Or you’d like to discover other strategies to get your girlfriend to want more sex, then check out this video of mine here…

How to get your girlfriend to want sex (VIDEO)

Watch the whole video to learn these advanced techniques to get your girlfriend to want sex like she never has before 🙂

 

Take care,

Phil