Make a woman want you sexually – the formula
Now this is initially going to sound overly simplistic, but stick with me, because this is very powerful…
If you want to dramatically increase the sexual desire of your wife or girlfriend then pay close attention.
Here’s the technique – Surprise Your Partner
See, I told you it would sound simplistic but let me explain, because the devil is in the details. When the passion and sexual desire starts to fade in a relationship it’s normally because routine takes over…
You and her both know exactly what’s going to happen and when, you know what the other’s going to do, how they’re going to act, what they’re going to say, how they’re going to say it and so on.
When it comes to sexual desire routine is deadly. Routine kills sexual desire – it completely neutralizes it. And the way to break up routine is with surprises.
By very definition a surprise interrupts a routine, because it’s something they don’t expect. Now what kind of surprise am I talking about? I’m talking about the kind of surprise that your partner will enjoy and appreciate…
And if you’re looking to have sex as a result of the surprise, you should pick your surprise and set it up accordingly. Let me give you an example: If you hardly ever cook for your partner, a simple, yet highly effective surprise is to cook her a beautiful 3 course dinner.
You don’t need to be a professional chef to do this, just google some simple yet nice looking recipes. And do the full works – get candles, put nice music on, dim the lights, manage for any disruptions like say children and so on.
Do this right and this in itself will make for a great surprise, and then afterwards you can slip right off to the bedroom.
Now what’s important is to make the absolute most out of the surprise.
While surprising your partner in the way I’ve just
described is still very effective in itself, there’s another
level to which you can take this.
And if you do this, THAT’S when you can expect to really interrupt the feeling of routine and kick-start a lot more sexual activity.
What I’m talking about is letting her know you’ve got a surprise planned.
You don’t necessary have to tell her the date, whether you do that depends on the nature of the surprise. But just let her know that you’ve got something special planned. And start teasing her a little with it.
Drop hints about how much she’s going to love it. Send her messages while you’re away from her telling her
you’re working on it.
Get her thinking about it by reminding her about it every now and again, but never telling her exactly what it is.
Build up the surprise over a period of days. What this will do is it will get her excited. When you’re stuck in a routine excitement can wane and sometimes that routine will become associated to the relationship.
By injecting excitement and something to look forward to you break the pattern of routine and as you do that you unlock a TON of pent up sexual desire.
Then, when you finally do deliver the surprise it’ll be 10x more enjoyable for her because she’ll have had a ton of anticipation for it.
Now, everything I’ve just described may sound like a lot of effort, but it really isn’t.
Once you get this started and you begin to see your partner’s reaction you’ll start getting excited because you’ll see how happy she is and it’ll be infectious.
Give it a try. And if you’d like to discover more tricks to getting your wife or girlfriend passionate and wanting sex, then be sure to check out this video…
It’s by relationship expert Michael Fiore and in this video he reveals a few simple text messages you can send to trigger your wife or girlfriend to desperately want sex.
Watch it here –
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