What To Do When You Can’t Get Hard
Want to know exactly how to get and stay hard naturally?
Ever been in this situation?
You’re in bed with your lover. Things start heating up. You’re touching her. She’s touching you and the vibes are very clear She’s getting horny. Perhaps she even starts grinding on you.
You know what’s coming next?
Soon she’s going to want sex. And naturally you find that incredibly exciting.
But then what happens just a moment later?
You experience the shock-down-to-earth realization that you’re not hard You’re obviously into this woman, you’re attracted to her physically, but your tool just isn’t operating. Perhaps you’ve managed to gain a semi-hard-on. But maybe not even that.
Whatever you have – it’s nowhere near enough to fully satisfy her. And then the time comes.
Even though you’ve tried to put it off in the hopes you’ll somehow manage to get hard in the meantime, things reach a point where it’s clear she wants you inside her and she wants it now. At this point she’s demanding all the clothes come off.
And soon enough – she realizes. She sees or feels you’re not fully hard. And her disappointment is clear.
Perhaps she tries to hide it, perhaps she tries to be nice about it. But even if she tries to be nice about it you can sense her disappointment.
And it makes you feel awful. It makes you feel small. It feels like your manhood and all your confidence has been robbed from you.
Now, different women react differently in this situation.
Some turn to anger and blame the person they’re with, while others blame themselves and begin to feel unattractive.
Whatever her reaction is – you feel responsible for it. You feel that intense pain in your gut. And it sucks.
You hate yourself for it.
And wish more than anything you could get rock hard so you could give her the satisfaction she desperately wants and deserves.
And in fact you deserve to be able to give her that satisfaction.
So you ask yourself – Why you? Why is it that you can’t summon the simple ability to get rock hard when it really matters? It seems so unfair.
And you enter a spiral of self-loathing, beating yourself up and wishing things were different. Perhaps you get angry, perhaps you blame her, or perhaps you just feel awful. No matter what, the situation sucks. And you wish you could just snap your fingers and get the hell out of the awkwardness you’re feeling.
You’re not the only man who’s experienced this. I’ve experienced this and in fact, thousands, if not millions of men have experienced this across the world. And being in this situation is terrible. There’s no two ways about it.
But I do have some good news.
This whole situation is fixable. There are 100% natural methods and techniques you can use to get rock hard on your command.
Let me give you a real quick one, right now – change your focus.
If you ever find yourself wrapped up in the thought pattern I just described, do whatever it takes to get the hell out of it. This is deadly spiral. One thing you may or may not know about hard-ons is that your mental state plays a massive role in your ability to get hard.
If you’re nervous, fearful or anxious it becomes ten times more difficult to achieve a full throbbing hard-on. So you need to break this pattern as soon as you spot it. And instead, you must switch to a pattern of thought that supports your ability to get hard.
Take a moment to think about a time in the past where you naturally got 100% hard.
What was unique to your thinking in that situation?
What did you focus on, what did you say to yourself?
Say you were focussing on sexual acts with a woman – then what exactly were you focussing on? What were you visualizing?
And when you get clear about that, try and figure out how you can recreate that pattern of focus when you’re next in bed with your lover to replace the pattern of focus of fear and anxiety.
That’s just a quick overview of one way to overcome this problem.
If you would like to discover more then come watch this video on how to get and stay hard naturally:
(Getting hard is about technique.)
It’s not about genetics, what your lover does, your history or many of the other things guys think is the reason why they can’t get hard.
If you struggle to get hard when it really matters then chances are you’re just using an ineffective approach.
Discover exactly what to do to get rock hard when it really matters here…
The MINDSET To Getting Rock Hard
Well, if right now you struggle to get or keep 100% full hard-ons then make sure you begin doing the following…
Adopt this mindset –
When in bed with your lover focus on nothing but making her feel great and on what arouses you.
That may sound like an obvious thing to do, but in reality it’s very different to what most guys focus on. See, most guys focus on themselves.
Perhaps they focus on how they can maximize their own pleasure, or perhaps they focus on whether or not they’re performing well in the eyes of the lover.
Now the latter, while still very noble, is not conducive to you getting hard. Why? Because if you’re worrying about your performance you’re likely to become anxious.
And if you become anxious you release all sorts of hormones into your bloodstream that are counter-productive to you getting hard. Luckily this is easily fixed.
I’ve already given you the solution. You need to start focussing on her. Focus on making her feel great. Get immersed in how great you’re making her feel. And focus on what arouses you about her.
Whatever it is that turns you on, figure it out and focus on that, because it’s from there that you’ll be able to create your feeling of arousal and therefore hardness.
Can you see how this type of mindset is much more likely to get and keep you hard than worrying about things not working out?
Mindset is a big part of getting and staying rock-hard in bed.
The other part is what you put in your body and the resources you give your body to get hard.
If you’d like to discover more about this side of super-charging your ability to get and stay hard naturally then go here:
Until you try this you won’t believe how much of a difference this can make.
Imagine being able to get hard as a steel rod. And imagine how much pleasure you’d be able to give your lover if you could maintain that throughout love-making.
Further Methods To Get And Stay Hard Natuarlly
Today I want to share a cool physical technique for getting harder.
Ever heard of the PC muscle?
While I could draw you a complicated technical diagram showing its location the inside of the body, it’s actually a lot easier to identify it as follows…
The PC muscle is the muscle you use to stop the urine flow while urinating. You know what I’m talking about, right? To stop the flow half way through while you’re going at it you contract this muscle in the genital area.
This is the PC muscle. Well, this PC muscle can also be used to boost blood flow to your manhood. Try contracting that muscle now, while reading this.
Do you notice your manhood moving? Well, when you begin to get hard you can use this muscle to help force more blood into your manhood. Multiple contractions, one after the other will help pump even more blood into it.
And not only does pumping more blood in make you harder. There’s a “rich get richer” effect, where as you get harder you’ll find it easier to get even more harder.
It’s a very powerful trick.
If you find yourself struggling to get hard, I recommend you try it out. Now, if you want some natural biological assistance in getting hard then come take a look at this:
This here is the real deal.
Another Breakthrough Way To Overcome E.D.
The process to get and stay hard naturally comes in three parts.
And so if you’re failing to get the kind of 100% rock solid hard-ons that make it easy to bring a woman to orgasm, or if you can’t stay hard and maintain your stamina in bed, then something is going wrong in this three part process.
Here are the three stages to getting and staying hard:
- You get external stimulation (for example you see a beautiful woman naked)
- External stimulation is processed in the brain and hormones are released into your bloodstream telling your manhood to store blood at high pressure
- Your manhood stores blood until it gets rock hard
Of these three parts there’s one part where you have substantially more influence than the others.
You can influence how you respond to external stimulation. For starters… what’s your internal dialogue?
When you enter a sexual situation do you start to panic and say things like – “What if I can’t stay hard?” “What if I can’t satisfy her?” “What will she think of my performance?”
Or do you respond confidently with things like – “This feels incredible” “I’m so connected to her” “she’s so sexy” “I’m so excited about having sex”
Similarly, what do you picture?
Do you picture things failing, you not staying hard, her being disappointed or other dis-empowering things? Or do you picture yourself staying hard, her having an incredible time and do you focus on all the things about her that arouse you?
Can you see how a different approach could cause you to experience different results in terms of your ability to get hard? Well the psychological side is only part of it.
A very important side mind you, but still only one side. There’s also a physical side.
What you put in your body can also have a huge impact on your ability to get hard, because some naturally occurring foods, especially certain rare plant extracts can provide your brain with the resources it needs to create more of the hormones that allow you to get hard.
If you’re interested in the science of how this works and you’d like to discover the powerful ways you can supplement what you’re eating to enhance your ability to get and stay hard then go here now…
Many variables go into you being able to get and keep a full 100% hard-on.
Lastly, I want to touch on a topic I get a lot of questions on, particularly regarding how to get and stay hard.
Do Women Prefer Size Or Hardness During Sex?
I think you’ll find this to be a very interesting question to ask women.
OK, so when it comes to this question you obviously need to have the right kind of relationship with any woman you ask this, but when you do ask this, I think you’ll be very interested by the answer.
Here’s what I’ve personally found women to say virtually 100% of the time, when asked the question “During sex do you prefer a big but soft pen** or a
small to average but hard pen**?”
Almost every woman will tell you that they prefer a small to average but hard penis. And here’s why:
When it comes to the physical side of sex, the level of stimulation that a woman feels is most important to her. And take a moment to think about this.
What do you think provides more stimulation – a soft but large penis or a rock-hard small to average sized penis?
The answer is obviously the rock hard penis because it provides more friction and therefore stimulation.
What this all means is that if you’d like to increase how much satisfaction you give your partner it is essential to make a priority out of achieving maximum stiffness
If you’re not getting 100% hard you’re risking leaving your lover dissatisfied sexually.
And in the long-run, leaving your partner unhappy with her sex life can lead to serious problems.
So, with all this said, how do you fix this challenge?
How can you get and stay hard naturally throughout sex, no matter how old you are, no matter what your lover is like and no matter what other limitations may be holding you back?
Here’s a video outlining a new method for doing exactly this.
This videoshows exactly how this method works and how you can start using it to gain more control so you can get and stay fully hard and give your lover more sexual satisfaction.
Watch this video here
This method for getting and staying fully hard is 100% natural. It doesn’t involve any pills or any weird stuff and it’s based on recent scientific research.