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How to Keep a Hard On Longer for Better Sex

September 9, 2018 Ed

Techniques to keep a hard on longer

When I’m teaching guys to keep a hard on longer in bed and give women more sexual pleasure there’s an interesting limitation I notice some guys have.

They have limited creativity.

And what I mean by that is they’re stuck in a little box of potential opportunities and methods and things they can use to last longer.

They think that there are only so many ways to have sex and what they’ve always done is the only way to do it.

So today I want to ask you a question to help you expand your thinking:

What if there were a 1,000 different ways in which you could have sex?

What if there were 1,000s of different approaches, styles and methods of sex you could test to help you last longer?

See, us humans are very habitual creatures. Once we develop our patterns we really like to stick to them. We are ultimately creatures of comfort.

Above all else we really want a sense of certainty and control.

And the way that most of us go about achieving this desired emotion is we stick to our current habits.

We keep doing what we’ve always done. We might take a little step outside the box of our comfort zone now and again, but generally we don’t stay out for long, let alone ever take a huge step out of it.

But what if you took a giant leap out of your comfort zone?

Change habits and change results

What if, when it came to sex, you tried some behaviors radically different to what you’ve ever done in the past? Now I’m not saying you’d have to do anything extreme or anything that you won’t enjoy doing.

But I am suggesting it’s worth exploring new things that you think you might enjoy doing, but maybe fear has held you back in the past.

Maybe you’ve got a technique you’d like to try out, but have been putting it off.

Maybe you have something you’d like to discuss in relation to sex with your lover, but are too embarrassed.

Whatever it is, you need to step up and do it.

Not only that, you need to look beyond what you previously thought were your limitations when it comes to sex.

So much more is possible when it comes to sex.

You can have more pleasure. Both of you can explore more positions. You learn to keep a hard on longer. Together you make a deeper connection.

And imagine if you took what you considered to be 10 out of 10 pleasurable and passionate sex.

Maybe that 10 out of 10 experience was actually only a 2 out of 10 experience in terms of the potential pleasure.

What if your current thinking has limited you too much. Maybe there are ways and methods of approaching sex very different to what you do. Maybe you can’t even perceive right now how enjoyable and how pleasurable it would be for the both of you.

Now I appreciate that it might sound like I’m going off the deep end here and talking all crazy, so let me bring this back down to Earth.

Is everything you know about sex wrong?

What if everything you thought you knew about sex, women, relationship, attraction, passion and pleasure was all wrong?

Perhaps you currently believe about your own limitations in terms of stamina, your ability to satisfy a woman, how much women really enjoy sex is also wrong.

What if you hadn’t even scratched the surface of your true potential?

Maybe everything you’ve been raised to believe about women and sex is wrong.

With the right approach you have the power to live the life of your dreams and be happier than you ever imagined you could be. And as a result, you start to enjoy your relationship with women to its maximum potential.

Kind of weird to think about isn’t it?

I guess what I’m really trying to do is get you to consider just how much potential you have.

And if you’ve come up with reasons as to why you may not be experiencing the results you want, then perhaps you need to examine those reasons more closely.

Perhaps they are just convenient stories that are holding you back from taking action and experiencing true joy through women.

That’s something important to think about.

Because when you discover that what you thought was holding you back actually isn’t holding you back.

You’ll experience a dramatic breakthrough in your sex life.

OK, so enough of my ramblings for today.

Techniques to keep a hard on longer

Find out how to keep a hard on longer. If you’re open to trying new things to develop maximum stamina, check out the video.

I strongly believe that every man has the potential to last over 30 minutes in bed.

The only two things holding guys back is their belief that they can, which I’ve discussed today…

And secondly, having the right techniques and methods to make it happen.

Discover my advanced techniques for lasting long in bed. Watch my how to last longer in bed video.

How to keep a hard on longer

August 26, 2018 Ed

Here’s how to keep a hard on longer in bed

Previously I have written about how in order to keep a hard on longer and overcome erectile dysfunction you don’t need medication.

If you have the physical capability to get hard, whether that be while watching porn, masturbating or even while you’re sleeping or first thing in the morning, it means you have the potential to get hard whenever you want.

All you need to do is figure out how to tap into that potential.

Then we talked about how what stops guys from getting hard is typically what goes through their head.

Nervousness, anxiety and fear cripple a guy’s ability to get and stay hard. You need to employ techniques and strategies to overcome these emotions.

Now what I’m going to suggest today is slightly different. But still ties in with what I discussed the other day.

Ask yourself …

Today I want you to ask yourself.

If in the last 6 months you’ve experienced a 100% natural erection in any situation, what was unique about that situation?

Once you figure out what’s unique, you can use those unique attributes to recreate an erection in the future.

But before we get to that, let’s break it down another level.

Assuming you didn’t answer ‘never’ to the question (in which case this particular exercise won’t work for you) there are two scenarios:

1) You can remember a time when you had sex where this situation happened

2) You can remember a time when you weren’t having sex where this situation happened

If the answer is number 1 then you’re closer to your end goal than if your answer is number 2.

So let’s start with number 2.

Discover the triggers

If there’s a time when you were able to get fully hard within the last 6 months then you need to figure out what was unique to that situation.

And not only that, you need to look for things that you can recreate in the bedroom.

This is important.

Saying something like “it was unique because I was by myself” isn’t empowering. You can’t use this to help you get hard when you’re with your lover.

You have to figure out what about that situation was unique.

So yes, perhaps you were alone, but that wasn’t the only thing that was unique. If you’re able to get hard while alone, but not with your lover then it must be what you’re focusing on psychologically.

Figure out what you’re focusing on that’s different when you’re by yourself that allows you to get hard vs. what you focus on when you’re with your lover.

Then, try and bridge the gap and transfer those attributes to sexual situations.

Transfer what turns you on

If you want to be able to get hard during sex, you’ve got to figure out what’s unique when you can get hard and then transfer that.

Since everyone is different there’s only so much I can do to help you with this.

Essentially you’ve got to figure out the difference between what causes you to get hard and what causes you to fail to get hard. Then do more of what does work for you.

If your answer was number 1 to the question earlier then the same process still applies, but you’ve just got it slightly easier.

If you’re sometimes able to get hard when you have sex, but then not others you’ve just got figure out what are the differences. The differences between when you can get hard and when you can’t. Then start doing more of what works for you.

It sounds simple, but this is a very powerful trick for overcoming ED and being able to get and stay hard.

Scientific strategies for keeping a hard on longer

Now, if you’d like to learn some specific strategies for getting and staying hard and would like to dive deeper into what kind of things trigger hardness, then watch this video.

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