The secrets to make her orgasm last longer
It’s so easy to get stuck in one way of thinking. So I want to challenge you to adopt a new way of thinking. It will help you make her orgasm last longer and more intense.
Because sometimes it’s what’s going on inside a woman’s head that’s holding her back. It prevents her from experiencing the sex life of her dreams. It’s not just a lack of knowing the right techniques.
OK, so what the heck am I talking about?
Best-selling author Maxwell Waltz popularized a very important concept that is directly relevant to giving women more pleasure and being an exceptional lover.
That concept is the self-image. Every person has a self-image. Our self-image is like a thermostat for the results we have in our life.
Let’s take our body weight for example. Pretty much everyone has a certain body weight that meets their self image.
Some people see themselves as skinny, some people see themselves as athletic, some people see themselves as “big”, and so on.
Here’s what’s interesting.
Self-image as motivator for change
Let’s take the example of an athletic person.
How do you think something like this responds if they notice themselves gaining fat?
They instantly start doing whatever it takes to lose the fat.
They’ll go on a diet, they’ll exercise more and they’ll keep doing different things until they regain the weight that matches their self-image.
In other words, their thermostat kicks in.
Just like how if the temperature drops too much in a house the heating will kick on, the same thing happens here.
Now why does this happen? Because this person has an identity of being an athletic person. It’s how they see themselves.
It’s a standard for them (in other words, not a ‘should’, but an absolute ‘must’). And it’s their self-image.
Now you could argue that no person that calls themselves big would be happy to gain fat, however, if their self-image isn’t one of being an athletic person,then although they’d probably quite like to lose any excess fat, since having the fat isn’t out of line with their
identity they aren’t driven to the point where they’ll do whatever it takes to lose it.
Now the self-image applies to all areas of life.
It applies to things like
- how clean you like your house,
- the type of friends you have,
- how you perform at work,
- which sports you play,
- how good you are at them,
- how much money you make (a difficult one to get your head around, but true nonetheless)
- and your sex life.
You have a self-image of your sex life.
You have a subconscious thermostat of what you’re willing to accept and what you’re willing to do whatever it takes to have.
Here’s the interesting thing – When you change your self-image you change everything.
See, sometimes I’ll share the exact same techniques with two different guys and they’ll come back with dramatically different results.
Some may say it didn’t work while another will say it worked incredibly well. The reason is because for the second person the technique aligned with his self-image.
He felt he deserved the change he wanted so it was that much more likely to be successful.
Tying this all together
If you help her to make her orgasm last longer you need to decide what you want your self-image to be when it comes to sex.
What are you willing to do whatever it takes to make happen?
Not what would you like to have happen?
What must happen for you and what will you
When you decide that and act on it your entire sex life will change for the better, because it’s who you are to have it.
It’s an intense concept to think about it, but it’s exceptionally powerful.
Take some time to evaluate and decide what you’re no longer willing to accept and what you must have in your life and the actions to make it happen will become obvious to you.
Combine a strong “inner game” with the right techniques and you can make her orgasm last longer and become such an exceptional lover that she’ll never want anyone else.
Warning: She may become sexually addicted to you
And if you are ready for the techniques to make her orgasm last longer, to allow her to have multiple orgasms so you both can live an exceptional sex-life, then check out this video teaching how to give women intense orgasms: