The most important concept to stop orgasm too quickly
Be able to quickly gain control to stop orgasm too fast and begin enjoying long lasting sex.
That’s what happened to me when I wrapped my head around this concept.
But I want to explain this concept from a slightly different perspective in this post. Not understanding this is such a huge roadblock to having stamina control.
So let’s dive in.
The number 1 most important concept to grasp to when trying to solve how to last longer in bed is to:
Realize that stopping quick orgasm is a skill you can learn
Here’s what I mean:
Most men seem to think that how long they can last is out of their person control.
And in my work in helping men last longer in bed I’ll often hear reasons like:
- I’ve never been able to last long so I never will
- My cock isn’t big enough that’s why I can’t last
- I just don’t have the genes for it
- When my lover does x, y, or z it makes me orgasm early so it’s not my fault.
But here’s the truth:
Complete control stop fast orgasm
Because the real cause of how long you last in bed does not come down to the common reason I hear like cock size, how you are as a person or what your lover does.
What determines how long you last comes down the specific things you do before and during sex.
That includes everything from sex positions to thrusting styles and from breathing patterns to the thoughts in your head.
And as weird as that might initially sound, if you really think about it, doesn’t it make sense?
For example, have you ever noticed how certain sex positions or thrusting styles cause you to orgasm more quickly than others?
Well this is just a tiny example of how the things you do can influence how long you last.
There are other factors you’ve also probably never realized that have an even bigger affect on how long you last.
And when you discover what these factors are and you change them.
That’s when you gain control over how long you last.
And that’s why being able to last long in bed is a skill that can be learned.
Because it doesn’t take lucky genes, the right woman, or being a certain size “down there”.
It takes learning the specific things to do before and during sex, that mean you can last a whole lot longer.
Specific things to do before and during sex to last longer in bed?
Well, like I’ve already alluded to, sex positions, thrusting styles, breathing patterns and your thoughts are some of them.
But there are many more subtle distinctions to learn that have an even bigger influence on how long you last.
And taking control of them is what will allow you to truly stop orgasm too quickly and last over 30 minutes in bed.
If you’d like to find out what these more subtle distinctions are and how I personally applied them and other techniques to go from lasting less than 10 seconds in bed to over 30 minutes in bed, then watch the video below.
Just like learning to ride a bike, lasting long in bed really can be learned.
You just need the right information to show you how.
In this video I’ve made for you I give this exact information for free.
Check it out here, while it’s still on-line.