When you really need to do something to save your marriage …
Now while everyone faces challenges in any relationship, I’m more specifically talking about serious marriage problems, the kind that gets you asking, how you can save your marriage.
The kind of problems that make you seriously doubt the relationship, the kind where you worry deeply what your spouse is thinking, the kind where when you head home to see her you get a knot in the pit of your stomach and the kind where you experience argument after argument or the polar opposite of absolutely no passion or excitement at all and you almost feel dead inside.
I want you to know that if you’re going through this it is possible to turn this around – and feel more passion, more joy and more excitement than you’ve even ever experienced in your relationship, and, in effect, save your marriage.
And that’s even if you are the only one who seems interested in turning things around.
Save your marriage first step – belief
If you feel like all is lost then that really doesn’t matter what approaches or methods I share with you, because without the belief that things can be turned around the execution would be so off it would have no effect.
You really have to believe that things can be turned around. And they can. You can seave your marriage when you sop doing the wrong things and start doing the right things.
And you’ll be able to develop this belief when you start to understand the dynamics of relationships and female psychology.
Save Your Marriage second step – understanding behaviours
See, often marriage problems arise because as men we don’t fully understand what’s really going on in our partner’s head.
And so we end up getting frustrated by their behaviours.
And we start feeling like what she’s doing is irrational or counter-productive to the relationship…
But let me tell you – when you understand what’s really going on – these behaviours will begin to make perfect sense…
And not only that, when you begin to understand the “why” behind her behaviours, they actually become an opportunity to inject passion into the relationship and revitalize what once had you so attracted to her when you first met.
Now one way to really understand your lover’s behaviours is to just take some time to get outside of yourself and focus on your lover.
Really “get into” her perspective and I don’t mean superficially. I mean set some time aside, sit down in a quite place and really put all of “your stuff” aside.
Get out of what you think matters, your point of view, your logic and just think totally from her perspective.
Why has she been acting the way she’s been acting?
What has she been trying to achieve?
What does she think about YOUR behaviours?
If you really want to save your marriage then challenge yourself to ask questions like this.
It may take some time to really leave your point of view, especially if there’s a lot of emotion there, but if you value your relationship this exercise is well worth it.
Now, what I’ve just shared is only one step you can take.
There are other steps, more powerful steps you can and will need to take if you want to really turn things around.
And you can discover them here:
Save Your Marriage – Starting Today
Here you’ll discover marriage advice from Amy Waterman, an expert on the subject of turning around challenged or failing marriages.
I strongly encourage you to check it out.
PS – Even if it feels like you’re the only one who wants to turn things around… It can still be done.
It has been done by couples who thought it would never be possible.
But to do it you need the right strategy.
Discover the proven strategy to save your marriage here…